I've had tinder for the past 3 days and I only had 7 matches which 3 of them were robots, 1 a hooker, and three with hb4s since I started to swiping right on every girl to test my theory.

It is so soul crushing. I'm told I'm a good looking guy, why the freak am I not getting matches with at least hb6 ? I showed my profile pics to a gal friend of mine, and she gave me pointers .


Still nothing

What the hell am I doing wrong?

What you are doing wrong is that you are trying to get validated on an internet site. If this is soul crushing for you then I don't know what will happen with real life issues. Stop going on tinder.

Your desperation wreaks through your post and probably through your profile.

Post up your pics or PM me if you need an honest opinion in your pics.

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Post a picture here or send it to pebble. You'll get nothing but brutally honest opinion either way.

I don't do tinder but I would think that unless your profile (does tinder have a profile?) is great and the girl loves it, the girl is going to choose based on only looks. Which means that you are being compared on only looks and you are being put up against the best looking dudes in your area. Your personality doesn't come in to play at all basically.

Go and approach girls in person.

Hate to break it to you bud but tinder is just a game for women. It’s a way to get a huge ego boost without having to really risk anything at all. Don’t take it personally, most women just don’t take that shit seriously. I’m sure if you were on an actual dating site you would have plenty of matches.

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He sent me a picture...

blackendstars - I am not surprised you're not getting matches. The one picture you did send of me was REALLY bad, since it is was the only pic you sent me, i shall just assume that you probably use it as a profile picture.

The profile pic is your only way to grab a girl's attention, so you will have to get a good picture of you looking your best.

You're not making it easy for yourself, that picture, it was really bad light, you look like a loner since it is a selfie in the dark.

To go deeper, you dress really bad and you're overweight...I really don't get why you are putting all your eggs in the tinder basket. Get the fuck out there in the field and change your life man!. Go traveling, lift some weights, You will get cool pics along the way.

Feel free to send me a full list of pics and incase you have some good ones you could be missing out on.

Here is my tinder:

(I will delete this pic after this weekend)

If you can't get laid every now and then in real life then online dating will be very tedious for you.

Last weekend, I went to Poland, in between day and night time number closes, I Tindered like crazy and got 3 dates, 1 girls resulted to sexy time and practically fell in love with a girl from day game. check it out here:

poland-trip-vt185532.html

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PEBBLE those are some great pics

Even I want to swipe right on you

Haha.

I would so totally meet you and smash and dash you.

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Bro didn't u click on the pictures there are more pictures

Here's are screen shot
http://s1189.photobucket.com/user/moesk ... 6.jpg.html
If anything swipe my pics right or by clicking to see the pics individually

Let me know what u still think

For now, use your pic where you a wearing the white necklace as the profile pic, the scuba one is good too

Like i said, you should aim to get the fundamentals. Lose some weight, get into shape, look more sharp.

Work on yourself to the point where you can get laid with a decent attractive girl at least once a month. THEN, consider Tinder/online game because without the fundamentals, it is a uphill swim on shit like Tinder.

right now, If I was a girl, i would swipe 'no' (no homo)

POF would be better for you where you can use your awesome messages to win them over.

getting results in real life is the key though for you though.

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That very first pic - the main one... where you're just staring:

It's bad. Swap it.

Use a pic with a puppy in it.

Don't use shirtless pics.

Your pictures just aren't inspiring any emotion.

I know ugly guys with emotionally inspiring photos that have high levels of success with online dating. Look at your photos and ask yourself " What emotion and I communicating? " And is this a high octane emotion such as " Anger, Shock, Happiness, etc. "

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Could it be my clothing style as well?

You're style is fine, and you're a decent looking guy - you just look relatively boring and emotionless. A girl will a date and ugly FUN guy, one million times before she dates an attractive bore.

But basically ; you lack in ability to get laid in real life is directly effecting your ability to get laid online. You're pictures aren't filled with vigor and emotion because perhaps you aren't? Tinder isn't some secret way to the top for guys that lack skills with women. Its just a cheat sheet for guys that know a bit of what they're doing. I'd encourage you to stop taking the short cut and develop yourself into someone that YOU can actually find attractive.

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