A few months ago school started again, I went to a new school, so I had new opportunities to test my game. I’ve been doing pretty well since I started studying all about the game around one and a half year ago, but somehow the girl I’m trying to get with at the moment, who in first seemed to be within hand reach turned out to actually be the hardest to get. Or I might have made a big mistake.

So this is the situation, around 3months ago school started, in the beginning I didn’t really notice her until a specific morning when I saw her staring at me all the time, although every time I watched it her, she looked away(later on turned out that she is just a really shy perso). From that moment on I knew I should try to get in touch with her. In the first couple of weeks we kept the contact really low, just a small smile when we’d see each other and some other IOI’s, but I was sure that she was totally in love with me, you could just see it.
After a while we got in touch and I asked her to come over that night and bring a friend so we could hang out with a friend of mine as well. We all became tipsy and at the end of the night the girl I wanted to get with and I kissed, unfortunately she had to go home with her friend.
One week afterwards we hang out with the four of us again, after having a good night I brought her home and kissed in front of her house, couldn’t come in because of her parents… After that we spent some pauses together and went to town a couple of times after school.
When I finished my day at school 3 weeks ago I gave her a small discrete kiss on the mouth in front of school, she was really surprised by that, 2 days later when we’d went for a drink I gave her a same kind of kiss when we’d said goodbye to each other.

So 2 weeks ago I asked her to hang out again, first she said she could, but later on during the day she was being really ambiguous and told she’d forgotten that she had also made an appointment with a friend of her. After that I didn’t contact her for the last 2 weeks, until today when I asked her to hang out again. But she said she is really busy at the moment. I don’t really get it, the girls appears to be totally in love with me but hasn’t got the time to hang out…? What should you guys suggest?

Thanks for helping and sorry for the bad English.

She's definitely not in love with you bro. It may be a hard pill to swallow, but a girl who is in love with you isn't going to keep coming up with excuses. Girls take time to fall in love.

She was surprised at your kiss? Was it an awkward surprise or a good surprise? Maybe it didn't go as you thought it did.

I'd hang back a while- let her come to you. You are probably too available for her.

Yes maybe your right ha, it's still weird tho how she pretented to be totally in love, I'd never seen a girl who was that obvious into me.

I think she hadn't really been dating before me so it definetely came as a surprise, she started blushing and laughing a bit afterward, seemed to be just shy and surprised.

Thanks for the advice, I think I will just hang back for a while as you said and see what happens.