Quick question

Long story short

-New girl
-Took on endless amount of dates (3 months in)
-Good exchange on investment, we both ask each other out, she paid for my dinner a few times
-Had no problem setting up dates with her
- Got 1 lay in with her

I asked her for a dinner date, she was flaky so I pushed for an actual day, we scheduled for a specific day, later she said she couldn't make it. Waited a few days, asked her out again but told her "Im seeing you this week for dinner, let me know the day your off". She said ok. Haven't heard anything back in 5 days. She's acting different for some reason, should I just wait for her to respond back, ball is in her court. I have already made 2 attempts.

Either a busy girl or you've got competition... I'd say the latter.

If it's been 5 days, then you COULD try again - or just simply ask her if everything's OK (I'd almost advise you to do nothing, and to take someone else out instead)...

If you do ask again, and you get blown off, you may want to retain some of your pride and just leave it.

She'll come to you if she's interested.

Thanks for the advice, I don't feel like asking her out for a third time. Sucks because she usually keeps tabs on me. She just started a new job, so she could be busy, however I am not sure. Really thinking of waiting it out. She knows that I've been wanted to take her out for the past 2 weeks..

Simple.

She met someone else. And it couldn't be anymore obvious.

Why only 1 lay in 3 months?

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prevention is better than cure

When you have sex with a new girl, make it your goal to be the guy that gives her the best fuck of her life and after life.

They tend to flake less when you do this.

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We were only friends before I did the lay, I wasn't really into her that much besides the company before the lay.
Oh well life moves on, If she does text back any advice?

Keep it cool and casual bro. You know. Don't push for a meet up or anything. Just chat her up and start moving on with your life. If you do it right; she'll chase you. You live and you learn though dude. I know how it feels, and it sucks; but its over pretty quickly.

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It's time to PULL. You've been pushing all along, and she can feel it. She doesn't want this. It is unattractive to her.

Here's a nice way to handle this particular situation
"Cancel the dinner invite, change of plans : D enjoy ur week"

Although it would have worked much better earlier in the week obviously, can still send this out, the week is not over and she is obviously not going to be replying to the earlier texts.

It's a 'push'. She will start to wonder about you, what you're up to, what (or who) you're doing.

From there, freeze her out for a period of several DAYS, and do NOT reply to her no matter what she says, despite your almost overwhelming urge to return to "pushing", you simply do not reply no matter what. Then hit her up in a few days after that with a very laid back text as though nothing happened like "saw a crazy ass movie last night, hwo ru". If you are not going to follow what is in this paragraph then don't even bother sending the initial text out because it will all be for nothing without the freezeout.

At the moment the girl is disinterested.

So in any case, you need to start "PULLING" with this girl, and stop pushing.

This all assumes she has some level of interest in hanging out after the lay. But hell, this can GENERATE interest so it's usually worth a shot no matter what.

She just texted me "HI" from out of the blue..i replied back 2hrs ltr with hey whats up..why did she text me hi which was very vague and abnormal..i think its time for me to move on. I don't care hows this story ends anymore.
I'm losing interest already, I think it was a very bad play she did to me. I have a very short fuse emotionally. I was bummed out for a moment but now i really don't care. I'm a successful guy and she's a HB 5-6 at best. Goodluck to her finding another guy like me lol I could pull hotter bitches however she provided me with something more of the intangible. I have the power and could do well without her.

Anyway theres no need to cancel anything since we never set anything up
But yes I will go cold on her, and will def not invite her out anymore ill keep u updated
I will make sure I completely switch up on her..

It doesn't matter that you didn't set anything up officially, you still laid an invite on the table. Take it off the table if you want to open the possibility of having sex with this girl again through getting her mind working on you and going crazy wondering what you're doing and who you're doing it with and what you're up to and feeling jealous because she is not the one out with you. At the moment she is luke warm at best. Meet more girls in any case like you mentioned.

LOL at the dumb ass replies on here. Freeze her out. Dude YOU'RE the fucking frozen one so how the almighty fuck can you freeze HER out? Sorry to break it to you but it seems to me you're crap in bed and she's lost interest. Right now her vibrator is her amazing, fucking lover. Move on. She's REALLY NOT that into you.

If she texted you saying HI, then it seems like she's trying to get your attention... Either that or she is trying to validate herself by getting you to chase her because she misses being chased.

Girls might hate being chased but most girls strive for that validation deep down, they love the attention but just not the wrong type of attention.

Go cold turkey on her. Fuck her man.

I would've fucked her off already by now in your case, I don't take shit from girls. You shouldn't either.

UPDATE

I knew this she couldn't resist me, I am high value guy so it would be hard for any HB to throw in the towel
She finally texts me wasss up after 24 hours of no reply HAHAHA

I'd rather friend zone her at this point, she's within one of my many social circles, so I don't want to fuck up that dynamic.


I'm thinking of not replying for a few days, and maybe reconnect on my time.
Or should I just completely go ghost. I will sleep on it for now.