Hey fellow Pua's,

I'm part of a student club and we had a meet-up yesterday, everyone is drunk but there is no music.
I was wingmanning for my friend and kept 2 chicks busy while he was talking to another one.
I gave the one i liked least attention at first and soon i found out she was showing IoI's and all that. I started to stroke her back and ass as we were standing behind a table and talking, i had some game going. I soon slipped my hand into her panties and tickled her a little down there, she was fully ok with it. We had a really good conversation and after a few drinks, my friend, me, his chick and my chick went to one of their houses to smoke weed and drink lemonade.
I'm a bad smoker as im not very adapt to inhaling, i pretty much failed on that but i had dominance going and it was still going smooth. My friend however, was so drunk he started to touch his girl while she said she didn't like it. He did this about 10x after the girl told him to stop. When he went to the bathroom, his chick said to me and her friend that she liked him, but not the touching. I was a bit awkward with the situation so i couldn't really take a good stance. In the meanwhile i started stroking and touching my chick again. Soon after my friend who i was wingmanning for got so touchy they said we had to leave. They made me leave first and my friend came 5 min after.

Any female psychology calls on this one? I honestly don't get why they sent me home. They could have sent him home, or us 3 and i would take the chick to her or my place. I'm desperate for some insights! Would the chick still like me and could i have another shot later (We see each other quite often)?

Thanks in advance,

Martin

I think the reason they booted you seems fairly obvious.

They told him no - repeatedly... he kept at it.

You were with him. You were a package deal.

You don't really have much to lose in hitting up your chick, though... assuming you were behaving OK (she may have none of it, though... depends how offended her friend was).

You have her number? Just shoot her a text and say you were sorry to see things end that way the other night and you apologize for your grabby friend. If she'd like to grab a drink with you sometime, you'd love to see her.

Thanks a lot for your insights, i'll see her irl again next week, will try to settle things in person

Wingman rule: stick with your boy. If they had asked him to leave and you stayed the girl would have lost respect for you. Also, next time pull your friend aside and tell him to calm down. If he's top drunk and you know he'll continue.. Start setting up the bounce with your chick so she comes when you leave.

Yea, it seems obvious. You didn't take control. If your boy was not stopping after the girl said to, then it's on you to pull him to the side and tell him to cut it, or if he's way too drunk to even comprehend, tell the girls you're gonna bring him home cause he's wasted and see if your girl wants to tag along back to your place, or if you live close by tell her you won't be long, if she wants to still hang out afterwards.

If you sat there and watched that and did nothing then your girl is eventually going to assume that you're ok with it and wonder if she's going to have the same problems with you.

Translation: Tell your friend to quit touching me.
You should have grabbed your friend and told him what she said so that he could still have a chance with her. That would have also given you greater value in the group.

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