I once had a super smart friend with benefits study buddy. After 2 hours of awesome sex, we spent the following 4 hours reading Plato and Edgar Allen Poe, listening to Beethoven, watching Shakespeare plays, or working through astronomy problems and Greek Geometry. We had SO MUCH FUN with intellectual challenges. Later she got a serious boyfriend who told her no more hanging out with old flames.

I know there are more women who would totally be up for a fwb like that.

Here's my question. Do you think it's a good idea to simply say all that in an online profile? Just show my cards. Or, maybe the profile should never explicitly say fwb or seeking smart girl, but instead be crafted to draw out such women, with out being explicit. Or maybe there is some 3rd way I've not thought of.

In any case, recommended reading or examples would be helpful. I don't really know at all how to write a profile to attract a fwb.

Thanks a lot guys.

You don't show your cards up front like that. Doing that would limit your options. There are plenty of women that wouldn't mind a FWB, but usually you have to build trust with them first.

Wow...two hours of great sex and then four hours of studying afterwards? If that were me...I'd need a nap.

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No way man. As Jack Zero says, you can't put all your cards out there like that.

Make your profile as awesome as possible. You want to give it a look for "wide appeal" - IE: will attract those looking to hook up, FWB, one night stands, relationships... everything...

Then you weed out the ones who don't suit your needs after you get matches. Depending on the type of girl you can straight up ask them (after a few messages to gauge her comfort level) why they're on the site/app and what they're looking for: dating, FWB, a husband?

Some will come right out and tell you.

I personally believe when you aren't trying to attract EVERYONE you attract the types of people you are looking for. So many men are afraid of missing out on a woman that they try to spread themselves thin and end up with nothing. Don't be afraid man, and don't try to attract everyone. Know what you want and be confident enough to put that out there and the types of women you are interested will gravitate to you; way more than a guy who's afraid of being honest because he wants as many options as he can get just incase he's not good enough to make something work out with one or two.

Be straight up and go for yours. The rewards do payoff.

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What would be a good ebook or some other source on writing a strong profile in this fashion? Theory is great but I also need examples. I can't afford those hundreds of dollars video seminars.

I wrote an article called " How To Get Laid on OKcupid " - if you scroll back on my website you should be able to find it.

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My new profile which is working much better, but if anyone has advice, shoot. (remember the objective, mentioned above)

My self-summary

I'm looking for a lady who reads too much, has an over active imagination, and once in a while is too adventurous. Like, gaining a skill at smooth talking police out of citations sort of adventure. Large women just don't do it for me. Attraction is not a choice. No half shaved heads please -you look like a dude. But tomboys with no make up are still cute. Bonus if you can cook because I can too. Bitchiness in moderation is healthy and encouraged.

As for me-- I'm addicted to books, eye contact, causing trouble, stand up comedy, and helping people. Both those I know and millions I never will.


You should message me if

Duh!!! You want to grow and have fun!

You're straight dude. Exactly like I said.. It even makes me wanna get to know you. Mines was similar within the things that I find attractive.

The guys that try to have as MANY options as possible end up only getting messaged by over weight girls and 3's and 4's. Sure they can messages 7's and 8's and get responses, but they don't have the 7's and 8's messaging them consistently. You actually will.

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Theres this 22 year old fashion design major who's quite smart and eccentric in the way I like. She leans towards wanting a monogamous boy friend. Any advice on how to maximize the potential that she'd go along with, and enjoy, an open relationship or fwb?