Hey Patrix,

You gotta stay with the " I'm busy blah an blah, but i'm free this day". Its unnecessary. Women are intuitive man and its not long before they catch onto our inauthenticity and begin to challenge us to be better. If you want to come across and being less available; design a life for yourself that leads to being less available. You don't have to talk about it. A busy guy is "felt" he doesn't have to speak about him being busy.

Be more genuine. This lady is 40+ with a kid; its not like she has lots of exciting options coming in and out of her life. You're probably the best thing that has ever happened to her. And you need to wear that shit with pride. Just be real with her man; upfront and honest. She'll respect you and continue to give you all the things you want. When a woman feels like you're not hiding anything or that you're being genuine she doesn't want to hide anything from you. Not even her naked body.

So my first advice is to just drop the overt gamey pua material. Be genuine.

And I say just invite her on over to your place for some wine and black n white movies. Unless you want to go to the park I don't see it as being necessary.

Next time things start getting heated between you and this girl, I want you to use the “BANANA ROUTINE.” This will change your life bro...

The way it works is when you start getting all hot and bothered with her, she might say stop or physically try to stop you. Then you say this, “Alright, I want you to feel safe and comfortable with me so here’s what we’re going to do. Once you start getting uncomfortable with anything that we’re doing, say a certain word and I will stop immediately and give you full control. Lets use.... Banana. Whenever you get uncomfortable with what we’re doing, just say banana and I’ll give you full control.”

She’ll probably say something like, “No come on, are you serious?”

Say “Yea I want this to be enjoyable for the both of us.”

She’ll agree to it and then say, “Ok lets start.” And immediately start ripping her clothes off and kissing her and undoing her bra as fast as you can.

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She’ll probably start laughing hard and she’ll be like “stop, stop!” And then say “you didn’t say it yet! you didn’t say the word!”

Once she says banana immediately put your hands in the air and move to the other side of the bed. This will show her that you’re serious about what you said, even though you joked with her for a bit. After 30 seconds or so (however long it takes her to put her bra and clothes back on she’ll say something like, “ok come back.” Keep using this to escalate to whatever level you want to go to with her.

And there it is, the banana routine. If you want more info like this come visit my website and sign up for my free newsletter.