im met this girl and apparently she has a bf. they only recently started dating so she's not to emotionally invested in him. when we talk she's pretty open about most things however uses the "i have a bf card" when ever i escalate. we played a game of 20questions over text and she was very open about any question i asked her, EX she told me # of kills and how she likes to be fucked.

i asked her for coffee and she said yes however she was busy that day and i couldn't the rest of the weekend(shes only in town for the weekend as she goes to school in a different city). im going to give it aweek and ask her again.

Q1: should i text her or make any contact from now till then?

ive only seen her once before in a club scenario and when i went for the kiss she pushed me off and said she had a bf.

Q2: is if its appropriate to go for the kiss on our date? assuming it goes well.
if so why, if not why not?

Thanks

Sit next to her and try to go kino. Don't lunge in for a kiss at the end of the date. Make it the natural evolution of what has been going on by the tone you set. If she's into all that of course.

so if the mood is right its acceptable to go for the kiss on the first date? our first encounter which was at a club she would let me escalate until kissing, she would let me put my hand around her ear, everything expect actually lip contact

If the mood is good it's acceptable to go for the kiss within the first 30 seconds of meeting a girl.