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PostPosted: Fri Nov 07, 2014 1:47 pm 
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Shall I send her a message on snapchat and ask if what her plans are tonight? I'm not friends with her on facebook but saw she was going out with a boy in June through her profile picture. I'm probably not going to get to talk to her today. By singling out my interest in messaging this girl about her plans am I showing too much interest - should I instead ask what her and her friend are doing tonight? Although that may make me look like a pussy.
If you're interested in a woman it is good to show that interest and pursue her for the most part.
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I messaged her last night saying

"You're coming to yoga with me next week"
- this was a joke between us from when we spoke once

She replied "no I'm not"

I then replied "you got much planned this weekend then?"

She replied

"Yeah I'm really busy this weekend!"

This seemed very blunt. I'm almost 100% sure she has a boyfriend now having done a bit more research. I'm currently in a lecture, she's a few rows away from me. How do I act if I see her? I think I may have come off as too laid back in person. Any advice is appreciated as usual guys.


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 07, 2014 8:52 pm 
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Shall I send her a message on snapchat and ask if what her plans are tonight? I'm not friends with her on facebook but saw she was going out with a boy in June through her profile picture. I'm probably not going to get to talk to her today. By singling out my interest in messaging this girl about her plans am I showing too much interest - should I instead ask what her and her friend are doing tonight? Although that may make me look like a pussy.
If you're interested in a woman it is good to show that interest and pursue her for the most part.
Update.

I messaged her last night saying

"You're coming to yoga with me next week"
- this was a joke between us from when we spoke once

She replied "no I'm not"

I then replied "you got much planned this weekend then?"

She replied

"Yeah I'm really busy this weekend!"

This seemed very blunt. I'm almost 100% sure she has a boyfriend now having done a bit more research. I'm currently in a lecture, she's a few rows away from me. How do I act if I see her? I think I may have come off as too laid back in person. Any advice is appreciated as usual guys.
I sat here for a while trying to think of something, anything, that might help here. The only thing I could come up with is "what are you doing next May 15th?"

At the moment you're getting the fingers stuck up at you. This will at least throw her a curveball and have her thinking "what the fuck? Why?" instead of "how do I get rid of this guy?"

It'll force her to either be at least a little civil or remain curious.

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 08, 2014 6:29 pm 
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Shall I send her a message on snapchat and ask if what her plans are tonight? I'm not friends with her on facebook but saw she was going out with a boy in June through her profile picture. I'm probably not going to get to talk to her today. By singling out my interest in messaging this girl about her plans am I showing too much interest - should I instead ask what her and her friend are doing tonight? Although that may make me look like a pussy.
If you're interested in a woman it is good to show that interest and pursue her for the most part.
I sent her a message in snapchat messenger saying "you're coming to yoga with me next week" She replied

"No I'm not"

I then said "have you got much planned this weekend then?"

Then she said

"Yeah I'm really busy this weekend!"

I just said "fair maan, have fun!"

I bumped into her in the gym two days later whilst in my Golds vest. I got a snapchat from her friend of the girl that night saying "HB8 said you looked good in the gym x" HB8 was embarrassed hiding behind her hand in the photo. I replied

"Thanks but I have a wife and kids..."

She replied with another picture of the HB8 unaware saying
"Is the wife HB8?"

I replied a while later "Not that I know of..."

I didn't get a reply but I know they were on a night out.

What shall I do to escalate this relationship?


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