I used to have this virtual office where I would have my mail sent.

about a year ago, this girl started working there. she is 19 and very cute. physically, everything is wrong about her. I like black her, she doesn't have black hair. I don't like skinny girls, she is very skinny. I like big eyes, she has small eyes. I like a big ass, her ass is tiny. But there is just something about her that I like. I can't identify what it is.

when she started working there a year ago, I would have a small chat with her every so often but very AFC, nothing sexual. because it's her place of work and I dont want to harass her. There is another girl that works there who is the manager. When I told her I like this girl, she said "she doesn't have a boyfriend, go talk to her" but I was an AFC and never did anything.

about 4 months ago, I left this office because it was too expensive. Today I went there to visit and the girl still works there. before I went in, I had kind of forgotten about her. but after I went in, I realized again I like her. had a small chat with her saying things like "what are you doing for halloween" just simple stuff. once again, I acted like an AFC and didn't escalate.

let me be completely honest and get this off my chest. my parents would not approve of me dating someone outside my religion so that's one concern. How would they find out? easy, a relative/friend will see me with her and report to my parents. See, I am very analytical and think about all the things that could go wrong.

I feel like if I met her outside on the street, I could do a much better job. I feel much more comfortable talking to a girl outdoors than indoors.

I know this post is not completely coherent but I am just trying to write everything that I think is relevant and make it as short as possible so people dont get scared and click the back button.

so please just give me suggestions. what should I do. is this oneitis? should I move on? should I "accidentally" run into her when she is at lunch?

Also, I feel like she likes me too. I dont know why, maybe I am wrong about this, maybe I am too biased to be a judge of that.

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Go back there and invite her out. If someone ends up reporting you hanging out with her to your parents, tell them she is a friend (this would be true).

Why does it matter what your parents think?

Anyway, I think gaming her when she is working will be a bit more difficult if you are not used to it. There's always a time constraint and you don't want it to look like you are hanging around just for her.

Anyway, just go for it.

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Bingo.

How old are you and what religion are we talking about? As long as they dont' behead you for talking to girls of different religions, who gives a shit.

I'm an open, out of the closet atheist in Louisiana. I was scared shirtless to be upfront to my family and friends about it. At times I honestly thought I was going to be disowned (I come from a poor family anyway, so it's not like I'm giving up a huge inheritance or anything) and asked to never speak to them again. In reality it was tense for a week or two and then everyone said fuck it, and everything's just like normal except I get a few religion questions from people every now and then.

First off, if you like a girl then you need to fvcking man up and go for her dude. It sounds harsh but what confidence is all about is OWNING your personality and your traits. So if you like a girl that not a lot of other guys like, who fvcking cares JUST GO FOR HER. Emotions are meant to be felt and the longer you deny the fact that you want to get to know this girl better, the bigger tole it’s going to take on you emotionally. Just embrace it and if you really want to get to know her better and maybe make her your girlfriend, then just do it. As for the religion thing, whats important is that you both accept each other for themselves, not based on their religion. When your parents see this, they will understand and accept it as well.

Best of luck bro.

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