I have a close friend (basically a brother) who i've known since preschool (21 now). we went to the same school together for 18 years now and the last 5 years or so he's been literally ruining his life. Got involved with a bad girl, wreck a friend of ours car while drunk driving, got his license suspended, atleast $25,000 in debt, and now has a kid with this girl...a couple of my other friends and I used to always tell him to break up with that girl, cause she really was the cause of all his troubles... so Now she's seeing another guy and he's talking about suicide and stuff, and how "she's his happiness, he can't be happy knowing she's with another guy" all that bullshit.....basically i know the reason he's like this is because he doesn't have any confidence, he doesn't have any other girls to talk to, and he basically just hate the idea that somebody did beter than him......

although getting into pick up won't solve ALL his problems i believe that it could help seriously

so how can he get his confidence up, what should he do to get over being afraid to talk to girls, basically what route should he take to be really successful at PICK UP

please help cause he won't listen to my advice so im asking some of the pro's on here

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Give him the job to act as your wing while he learns by watching you do the actual pick up. Work him to the point of opening sets.

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that makes sense any more advice?

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

There's not much more you can do. He's caught up in his emotions. If you can get him out and have a good time, he should eventually realize that girl was holding him back.

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You’re right, while this is not something that pickup can cure, it doesn’t hurt to boost his confidence. I’ve been through a lot of different confidence building programs over the years from “Internal game” by Bobby Rio, to “Status” by Jason Capital. The thing about these programs is usually the one that will make the biggest difference is the one that you need to be experienced before taking. “Status” by Jason Capital is by far the best confidence building program out there, HOWEVER, I would definitely not recommend this for your friend as it was created for intermediate-advanced level guys. If I were you, I would check out the program “The Desire System” by Dr. David Tan. When I was first trying to gain superior levels of confidence, this program absolutely changed my life. It comes with a bonus called “Complete Confidence Hypnosis.” It is a set of tapes that work on programming confidence DEEP into your subconscious. I was a little skeptical at first but as a psychology student, I knew that the only way to truly instill ideas and turn them into beliefs, is to program them into your subconscious. So I gave it a shot, and it worked wonders.

If you want more info on this program and how you can purchase it, visit my website. Best of luck.

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Send him to my website EddieFews.com there are a ton of free articles that will be of great service to him and his specific situation. I've personally dealt with guys having this very issue more than I have dealt with any other issue; so I cater a decent amount of my material to it. So just have him read up and contact me if need him. He needs understanding, he doesn't just need to be told what to do. If it was that easy he would of done it by now.

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