I'll try to make this as short as possible.

I'm 25 now, I went to college and school with a girl called Sam... who I havent seen in 8 years. We have eachother on Facebook but we havent spoken in a long time. She was hot back then, but her Facebook pictures showed that she put a lot of weight on and cut her hair short - not my kind of thing, wasn't attracted.

About a month ago, Sam posted something about being accepted at University, I didn't think much of it... until I saw that she posted a picture of herself on Halloween, where she put makeup on half of her face, she looked HOT! So I popped up and messaged her. I'll put the conversation below:

Points to note: the reference about stabbing anybody in the bum, is because she fell over and stabbed a small knife into a guys ass cheek...

Me: That Halloween pics great. Are you doing something to do with makeup at Uni then?
Her: A ha nah!!! Thanks I'm doing criminology and criminal justice xxx
Me: Nice, you'll smash that you can go far in that kind of thing. I'm only just going back to college lol
Her: I'm really enjoying it x what u doing at college hope u all good too xxx
Me: Thats good you should stick at that, you'll be rich haha. I'm doing accountancy, but doing my Maths and English GCSE's fast track at the same time
Wouldnt of thought we'd go back into studying when we dropped out of *college name here* lol
Her: That's good to do youll be minted in the long run xx I thought that when went back last year xx
Me: I'm really glad you're doing well for yourself. What are you hoping to do after the course?
Her: *3 big cheesy grin faces* I'm gonna do my masters degree in social work which basically gives me the opportunity to earn silly money xxx
Me: Fuck me you'll make a killing
Might have to marry you one day lol
Her: Ha ha ha xx xxx
U go out much x
Me: A little bit, I used to go out more but I cant handle my drink lol I end up thinking I'm gorgeous when I'm drunk. More into pubs than clubs though. What about you?
Her: Not a lot as work weekends some times and if do go out of *town where we live* xxx
Me: Ye I wouldnt really go anywhere in *town where we live*, Spoons is ok but been too many times. We need a catch up one of the days though its been years
Her: Yeah defo we should go for a drink let me know when free xx
Me: As long as you promise not to stab anybody in the bum
Whats your number, or snapchat?
Her: What's urs I'll tx u and my sbapchat is *snapchat*
X

At this point I gave my number, she text me hers... and I added her on Snapchat

We've spoken a little on Snapchat in the past week, but it was instantly boring compared to Facebook. She posted a picture on her snapchat story basically timeline) of her with purple in her hair, so I said "Make sure you've got your hair like that when I next see you thats not bad" and she put "thanks xx" ...she was out, and busy... but did she not seem a lot more interested than that on Facebook? Is it because she remembers the old me, who got no girls, and was far from alpha (I was popular in school, as was she, but I wasn't one of the alpha guys or anything)

I've got a lot better looking, grown up a lot, and improved my game a lot... but I didnt want to go full out PUA on her lol--I didn't think it'd look authentic, when she knows the old me too well.

Any tips on where I went wrong, if I did? I've got ideas in my head, but I don't want to write them out on here and influence people.

Thanks...

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The Snapchat bit was actually like this, sorry:

Me: Have your hair like that when I see you
Her: Why? x
Me: I like it kinda cute
Her: Thanks xxx

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Sure she's single?

She sounds a bit stuffy - but she agreed to meet up. Do you have a set day and time? Get on that if not.

I don't think you really went wrong anywhere - but I also don't think you've got her interest level where you want it either...

Don't overdo the texting. You don't want to scare her off.

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Thanks for the advice..
I was thinking this, which is why I didn't bother too much after getting her number. I know I sent quite a lot on Facebook, but we hadnt spoken in years and it felt like I needed to build somewhat of a connection, after how much of a betamale I was in school/college when it came to girls.
I'm about 80% sure shes single - at least her Facebook relationship status is hidden, anyway.

Yea I suppose agreeing to meet up is something. Only problem there is that I don't have a penny to my name at the moment... having just started college again, with Christmas coming up etc. Can't really do much as far as dating goes, right? Shes more of the nightclub type, than the walk in a park type. I do agree that I should have set a definite date though, I thought the same at the time.

Another reason I didn't set a definite date, is because, like Mark Manson says: It's either "Fuck yeah" or "No" ...as far as she goes, it's "Hmm, I'd fuck her, but will my past just put her shield up too high?"

I agree 100% about the interest level.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Thanks for the advice..
I was thinking this, which is why I didn't bother too much after getting her number. I know I sent quite a lot on Facebook, but we hadnt spoken in years and it felt like I needed to build somewhat of a connection, after how much of a betamale I was in school/college when it came to girls.
I'm about 80% sure shes single - at least her Facebook relationship status is hidden, anyway.

Yea I suppose agreeing to meet up is something. Only problem there is that I don't have a penny to my name at the moment... having just started college again, with Christmas coming up etc. Can't really do much as far as dating goes, right? Shes more of the nightclub type, than the walk in a park type. I do agree that I should have set a definite date though, I thought the same at the time.

Another reason I didn't set a definite date, is because, like Mark Manson says: It's either "Fuck yeah" or "No" ...as far as she goes, it's "Hmm, I'd fuck her, but will my past just put her shield up too high?"

I agree 100% about the interest level.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Thanks for the advice..
I was thinking this, which is why I didn't bother too much after getting her number. I know I sent quite a lot on Facebook, but we hadnt spoken in years and it felt like I needed to build somewhat of a connection, after how much of a betamale I was in school/college when it came to girls.
I'm about 80% sure shes single - at least her Facebook relationship status is hidden, anyway.

Yea I suppose agreeing to meet up is something. Only problem there is that I don't have a penny to my name at the moment... having just started college again, with Christmas coming up etc. Can't really do much as far as dating goes, right? Shes more of the nightclub type, than the walk in a park type. I do agree that I should have set a definite date though, I thought the same at the time.

Another reason I didn't set a definite date, is because, like Mark Manson says: It's either "Fuck yeah" or "No" ...as far as she goes, it's "Hmm, I'd fuck her, but will my past just put her shield up too high?"

I agree 100% about the interest level.

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Coffee is cheap. So is a walk in the park.

You need to strike while the iron is hot on this one... You've just reconnected, so waiting a few weeks will cool this off.

She asked you when you were free and you proceeded to talking to her like one of her best friends instead of setting up a time to actually hang out with her.

Why is she getting so much of your time so soon? What has she done? Wore some nice make up?

You also jumped through her loop like an good obedient boy when she replied to you asking for her number with " Whats yours ".. I think its a bit easier to give your number than to take someone else and then text them.

Last but not least, I always call when I get the numbers and then set up the date man.

You got boring thats all.. Charge it to the game and move along. She wasn't anything special anyway. You're only cornered because you invested too much of your time in her and it didn't pan out.

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She never really asked when I was free - she told me to let her know when I am, meaning in the future. I get what you mean though. I don't think I gave her much time, that was only about 15 minutes, lol. The number part though, I do wish I'd been like "Here, take my number, give me a call and we'll go out" or something. I didn't really invest much, I'm not heartbroken or anything, I've just always thought she'd be great in bed - she was never afraid to talk about things she liked in bed, even when I was an absolute beta, she'd tell me how she loves it when her boyfriend (at the time) pulls out and cums on her stomach, lol. She used to literally stand up, and kick her leg up in the air, rest it on my shoulder and pull me into her... I'm 6"3 tall, like 6 inches taller than her. She'd probably be unreal in bed, which has always been in the back of my mind whenever I see her.

Does the fact that she knew me before game etc, work against me? I've always been weird when it comes to the thought of girls from the past, though I've had good results with some of them since.

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Doesn't matter dude. Women are products of the moment. If they feel it in the moment they do it so if you can make them feel "it" it'll get done.

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