Generally id say my game was average, although i often get into a situation where a girl will hold out on me ' I'm presuming because she likes me and wants a boyfriend'. I often have to wait till a 3rd date before actually getting laid which is annoying to say the least!

I follow protocol making moves touching kissing, even saying hey wanna come back to mine for a drink... then get replied saying things such as 'easy now' or 'not yet'.

Its frustrating... sexually.. haha

I know alot of you guys are better than me at this, where could i be going wrong? am i coming off as a person that would be boyfriend material? because thats what i dont want at this time in my life...


Any help most apreciated

Thanks
Joel

Spelling it out to the girl is using logic.

This doesn't match with how the female mind works.

They want to FEEL that the seduction "just happened."

The term "swept off her feet" comes into play.

Next time: "Let's get out of here." She comes with. Go to your place. She comes in to see whatever thing you were telling her about earlier (artwork, movie, doesn't matter).

Another way to handle this "easy now" comment is "hey get your mind out of the gutter, I'm not that easy." Turn it around on them.

Ahhh yeah thinking about it your right, im making it too blatant... Thats a massive floor in my game, ill work on that thanks

I once was on a second date with a girl and she got abit lively after 3 glasses of wine, she was talking about her Magaluf or her 'Shagaluf' week away and other slutty circumstances, so naturally i though oi oi, im in here but it got to the end and i couldnt even close on that fit but un-classy sort of girl...

I'm pretty new to the pick up artist scene and think i have alot of floors people like you could help iron out.

Thanks Again
Joel

Since you're out, getting dates, kissing/kino, getting laid, you're quite far along. Just maybe some f-close logistics to work out but you've already stated you are going to work on that so you should be golden.