Hi Guys, I'm new here and I came on because I have a very specific problem. I recently started university and met this really interesting girl, she is beautiful, and really weird, let's just say she's not your run of the mill girl when it comes to her personality, and that turned me on a lot.

So I came into her group, soon found out she has a boyfriend, luckily though it is someone she met before Uni , so it is a long distance relationship as our Uni is 2 hours away on a train ride from his. So I think she only sees him maybe every 2 months, don't know how often she texts/facebooks him, I don't know any of that.

Long story short is I really want this one, is there any way I can go about breaking her off him, and getting her romantic attention on me?

Thanks for any help you can give.

Run normal game on her. It's a long distance relationship between college kids. That shit falls apart all the time. And even when it doesn't there's only a tiny chance that neither of them aren't getting sex on the side.

Invite her out, be fun and flirty, don't tell her that you like her or any of that crap. This way she has deniability to herself and tell her self "well I just think we are going out as friends". Get her having fun and in bed and if she likes you she'll drop the dude.

Thanks, any way to ensure she likes me, what kind of tricks, specifically could I use?

What? No. There's no silver bullet.

There's no magic here.

You cannot make someone like you. Particularly when she's already with someone else.

You need to be a better option. You need to be what her boyfriend isn't (IE: There... fun, giving her attention and making her life better and more fun and more enjoyable). Do not read this as "dote on her and put her on a pedestal"...

Don't tell her you like her. At all. Ever. Show her instead. Get her out for drinks and escalate.

As charles said ! however long distance relationships are easily crumbled especially if shes very out there which by the sounds of her personality she it! you should just run normal game

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Problem is, I've never run game, I've read around it and watched some videos, but I've never had a girlfriend or even made a move before, because I've just never been interested before. I'm really nervous and I'm kinda starting to linger around. I'm not sure exactly how to approach, also she is a bit of a hermit, stays in her room a lot (definitely not a party girl).

This is a pickup forum... you're going to get people telling you to run game.

Pickup differentiates average guys with no game, from guys who want to make an improvement in their lives and learn to talk to women confidently.

"Game" doesn't have to be routines and canned material. Stenic is telling you to be confident, know your worth and know that you're the catch here. She'd be lucky to be with you.

Do not go and tell her you like her or that you want to date her... That's what an average guy would do. Someone running game would tell her you're gonna buy her a beer... and then you sit beside her and start touching her (kino - look it up)... Escalate into kissing.

Never reveal your intentions.

You can also look up "boyfriend destroyer" routines on this forum. I find them a little gimmicky and can't believe they'd actually work, but I guess some people have had success with them.

Thanks.

Girls will just let you touch them?

... you can't be serious. Is this a troll?

I don't mean creepy touching. Hold her hand, give her a palm reading, put your hand on the small of her back.

I'm not talking about groping her.

Oh ok. Im not a troll, I'm just really innocent, I don't know much.

Get out and stop being innocent dude. Trust me. Start approaching girls. Start hitting on them. Watc a few videos on youtube of guys approaching girls and then go out and do that for an entire weekend. You can get good at this shit. And then when you meet the one girl that you're very very interested in you won't have to wonder "hmm how do I get this girl?". That's why you don't start the football season with the super bowl.

And there is no magic bullet here. You can have a few tricks to get girls interest but unless you have some game to escalate and make them laugh and to further build report, any tricks you use will be ultimately useless.

Well you either a troll or been hiding all your life...

You have to be confident... everything comes down to confidence and frame of mind... If you walk upto her and say 'hey want to grab a beer sometime studying is killing me right now!' in a strong positive manner she'll happily accept. If you walk up say it sheepishly she will hesitate and possibly decline.

You got to get out in the big bad world dude. You'll soon realize its not as bad as everyone says when you know how to work it.

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