Good afternoon gents,

I'm after some online advice. There's a few girls on my Facebook who show IOI's & I do spend a lot of time online.
If a girl updates her profile picture, what sort of comment can I put below to show interest without sounding lame etc. My general style tends to be direct, but any help would be great!
Whilst I'm on the subject of Facebook, can someone give me a few pointers as to what to say on girls posts to show interest in a way that's not typical of others or lame.

Thanks in advance for replies lads

Get off Facebook.

Gaming girls via comments on photos is just a horrible way to do it and it's limiting.

You cannot fuck a girl via social media.

Get onto text or phone as soon as possible, or get her out -- and you can't ask her out via the comments on a photo either.

As for your actual question -- don't write something that every other guy is writing: "Hot!" or "Lookin good" or whatever AFCs write to hot girls. It's social media cat-calling.

Tell her she looks gassy or something... but do it in private.

Ok, getting off of Facebook goes without saying. Bit of stupid thing to say reading back over it tbf. I'm looking for pointers on ways to take it from speaking to a girl on Facebook to meeting in person.

Cool - well it depends how you know the person. If you've known them for a while and are just trying to make it into something more than friendship, casually suggesting to meet up for a beer and catch up is the way to go (don't say the word date)...

If you're doing it cold - IE: you don't know the girl -- and you're just creepily stalking them on social media -- you've got an uphill battle on your hands.

It helps to have mutual friends you can discuss -- IE: how do you know Frank, anyway?

You'll need to build some comfort and some attraction... then if you're getting good responses from her which are showing some interest, you can suggest meeting up for a drink... You need to gauge her interest though - asking too early or missing queues can be rough via messenger with someone you've never met.

Thanks, that makes sense. Something for me to work with.

I've had my share of lays from random girls I friend requested on Facebook. I personally think its a cool outlet to use to get laid if you ask me. And theres no real issue with using it unless it becomes your only source of meeting new people; but if thats the case your probably would have no idea how to be successful with it anyone.

I'll just message the girl something funny and relevant to a status update or profile pic update the put up.

The chicks will usually judge you based off of your online presence. How many picture likes, status likes and activity. More so than what you actually look like.

Because of what I do, i have a decent online presence, so I get some Facebook pull. But if you're completely inactive, I say you just have to be witty and creative man. No girl can resist someone making them laugh.

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Interesting views. Thanks bro

Moreover, thanks to Facebook, you now have an online catalog of images cataloging where you're ex is going, what your ex is doing, and that is being done. It may be tempting periodically (or psychotic) check on them and see what they are doing. This is neither productive or healthy behavior. Avoid eStalking them and instead spend that time working on yourself.