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PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2014 12:57 pm 
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Hi Guys,

So, basically, me and this girl go to the same college together.
She has a boyfriend for 3 years, but we have been flirting and getting really close and stuff.
Last week we all go to the pub and we get talking together, she say's she wants to talk to me along, and that is that she likes me.
I tell her the feeling is mutual, it doesn't take einstein to work out something is going on.
Anyway, she say's she is very confusd and needs to think things out, but she say's this thing is between me and her and has nothing to do with her boyfriend, which I don't entirely understand.

We're on break for the past week and so haven't seen each other, but have been texting back and forth, getting into some arguments about the situation, and i've told her that I don't want to get involved as long as she has a bf.
But we still text flirty things, but I don't know what to do now... I really like her and there is obviously somehting there but i'm a little stuck now. The recent texts involve something about how she likes to play games when she has sex.... I replied with 'im good at games and often win', to which she replied with, 'now i'm curious'.

Where do I go from here!

Thanks


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 Post subject: Re: Need Help...
PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2014 1:27 pm 
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Hi Guys,

So, basically, me and this girl go to the same college together.
She has a boyfriend for 3 years, but we have been flirting and getting really close and stuff.
Last week we all go to the pub and we get talking together, she say's she wants to talk to me along, and that is that she likes me.
I tell her the feeling is mutual, it doesn't take einstein to work out something is going on.
Anyway, she say's she is very confusd and needs to think things out, but she say's this thing is between me and her and has nothing to do with her boyfriend, which I don't entirely understand.

We're on break for the past week and so haven't seen each other, but have been texting back and forth, getting into some arguments about the situation, and i've told her that I don't want to get involved as long as she has a bf.
But we still text flirty things, but I don't know what to do now... I really like her and there is obviously somehting there but i'm a little stuck now. The recent texts involve something about how she likes to play games when she has sex.... I replied with 'im good at games and often win', to which she replied with, 'now i'm curious'.

Where do I go from here!

Thanks
She wants to screw you without breaking up with her bf. Either do it or don't.

What on earth do you need help with in this situation? If you refuse to sleep with her while she has a bf, tell her that. And she can make her choice. If not, get her alone and escalate, because this girl is DTF.


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 Post subject: Re: Need Help...
PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2014 1:48 pm 
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I don't get why you're telling her you want nothing to do with her as long as she has a boyfriend, while concurrently sexting with the bitch...

Pick a route. Stick with it.


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 Post subject: Re: Need Help...
PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2014 3:02 pm 
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Thanks guys, point made.


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 Post subject: Re: Need Help...
PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2014 3:18 pm 
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If i were you I would trust your instincts. If you don't want to get involved with a girl that has someone then don't. We are usually only judged by our own feelings and thoughts. If you feel its wrong in your heart, its wrong.

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