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 Post subject: Tinder
PostPosted: Thu Oct 30, 2014 7:45 am 
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Im an asian asian model (not american asian), so look probly 8/10, but not preference of most caucasian girls. I live in LA. Have pic: first one with a famous athlete, second is me with playing guitar in suit in concert hall, third is me wearing vest to show off some muscle with my friend in a bar. so i think i have follow the formula and my looks shouldnt be problem at attracting asian. but...

I got a tinder liker which allows me to like 50 profiles at once. I've liked over 1000 profiles and get like 10 matches. msot of them are fat, ugly, just mediocre looking. i hav a few good looking which seems like bot. they just initiate conversation and talk about hook up right off. pretty obvious

my question is that how do i improve? is tinder liker scam? Does tinder even work? and the girls u guys f closed how hot r they?


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder
PostPosted: Thu Oct 30, 2014 12:05 pm 
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I guess you asked 2 questions: (1) Tinder pics and (2) is Tinder worth it.

(1) For pics I generally find just dressing nicely is the best. You may have a sick bod but they'll figure that out without a half-naked bod pic. The celebrity might be a name drop thing for them that turns them off.

(2) I've never found much success with Tinder. I've found decent success with online dating and some success in person (although I'm shy so I don't have too many infield pickups).
I stopped using Tinder months ago after giving it a try for about 1.5 months.


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder
PostPosted: Thu Oct 30, 2014 12:35 pm 
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For your pics...

1) Put your shirt on. Nobody cares about your muscles
2) Limited or no selfies - be with other people and smiling in most of them
3) Pose with a puppy, dude

For Tinder Liker...

? - Never heard of it, but why not just swipe right? You don't need an app to help you with this. You could get through 1000 in like 10 mins.


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder
PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2014 3:47 am 
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There is very little point in men using Tinder.

Women ARE NOT VISUAL in their attraction. They are attracted to a man who makes them feel the way they want to feel. Amused, excited etc.

This is very challenging to communicate online, especially in the 100? word description that Tinder allows you to write about yourself.

Do not take it personally if you are getting a low match count on Tinder. Do not let it question your ability to get with women. Do not let it effect your confidence.

I guarantee even the best looking guys out there aren't having huge amounts of success on Tinder due to this reason.
If you're confident and comfortable and if you were to approach those girls who swiped left of you in a bar flowing with good energy, you would probably walk away with a phone number 80% of the time.


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder
PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2014 4:19 am 
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Do not take it personally if you are getting a low match count on Tinder. Do not let it question your ability to get with women. Do not let it effect your confidence.

I guarantee even the best looking guys out there aren't having huge amounts of success on Tinder due to this reason. If you're confident and comfortable and if you were to approach those girls who swiped left of you in a bar flowing with good energy, you would probably walk away with a phone number 80% of the time.
Spot on in my opinion. I was on POF and got a bitchy entitled reply from a HB6. Thought, WTF. It can fuck with your mindstate if you're not careful. Went out into the real world and got a good response. There is something to be said about everything in your post SteveJ, although no doubt there are guys out there absolutely crushing it with Tinder/POF/etc.

It's just that I find women are so open to RL approaches that online TO ME seems like a waste of time. Though I haven't tried tinder yet. On the other sites it just feels like to the girl I am just one of many dudes who in her mind doesn't have the skills to do anything offline or approach a girl so I'm hiding behind my screen (in her mind).

It feels like a DLV to me that I am sarging them online when I know full well I could be at the very same time approaching women offline and generally get some sparks going.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2014 4:26 am 
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Do not take it personally if you are getting a low match count on Tinder. Do not let it question your ability to get with women. Do not let it effect your confidence.

I guarantee even the best looking guys out there aren't having huge amounts of success on Tinder due to this reason. If you're confident and comfortable and if you were to approach those girls who swiped left of you in a bar flowing with good energy, you would probably walk away with a phone number 80% of the time.
Spot on in my opinion. I was on POF and got a bitchy entitled reply from a HB6. Thought, WTF. It can fuck with your mindstate if you're not careful. Went out into the real world and got a good response. There is something to be said about everything in your post SteveJ, although no doubt there are guys out there absolutely crushing it with Tinder/POF/etc.

It's just that I find women are so open to RL approaches that online TO ME seems like a waste of time. Though I haven't tried tinder yet.

It feels like a DLV to me that I am sarging them online when I know full well I could be at the very same time approaching women offline and generally get some sparks going.
Yeah don't get me wrong, I'm sure there are guys out there who are great with online dating. I'm sure there is some sort of game to it that would be difficult to nail and in my opinion not very resourceful compared to night game or daygame.

My point was more that lack of response on Tinder/Online dating should have no effect on your strong, confident mind set and to not let it effect your real life gaming.

Because you're right, lack of response can make you start to think that you're not good enough, not good looking enough and can make you start to resent women. When really that just isn't the case because women are not visual in their attraction.


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder
PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2014 6:35 pm 
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Pick pictures that communicate some form of emotion. Ask yourself " What emotion is this pic giving off "- You want to come off interesting, fun, and feeling. Not like some self absorbed pretty boy.

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 Post subject: Re: Tinder
PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2014 7:28 pm 
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no doubt there are guys out there absolutely crushing it with Tinder/POF/etc.
I know a guy who is boning 4 girls a week using pof.

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 Post subject: Re: Tinder
PostPosted: Sat Nov 01, 2014 11:52 pm 
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Thank for all reply

I was writing this post in reference of this article: picking-up-girls-using-the-tinder-app-vt173434.html

I did everything according to formula, but it did not work haha.

Question: the 4 girls per week, are those girls hot?


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 Post subject: Re: Tinder
PostPosted: Sun Nov 02, 2014 12:18 am 
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Thank for all reply

I was writing this post in reference of this article: picking-up-girls-using-the-tinder-app-vt173434.html

I did everything according to formula, but it did not work haha.

Question: the 4 girls per week, are those girls hot?
sorry I have no information regarding how hot they are.

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