* Went on a date with chinese girl from tinder
* Shes in 30's been single for many years and is a smart laywer
* Date went ok, chat was fine.. I called it time at end of evening
* Kissed her goodbye on cheek and didnt bother to escalate as I wanted to be more mysterious than full on
* Told her to text me when she got home
* She did, and said 'Home. Thanks for the evening'
* I responded jokingly the next day on text 'Glad you got home, was worried about you going red in the face from the alchohol on the tube '
* ( She is chinese so cant drink too much or she turns red like an apple)
* She responds 'Oh.. Small talk again? My ability to do that has left for the evening'
* Wandering if that is 'im not interested' or a 'shit test' or something
* Cant see her being my gf, but would like to fuck her

thoughts?

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That wasn't a shit test. She took a shot at you. You didn't describe a very exciting date. You're not going to fuck her if you didn't give her more than small talk and trying to be mysterious. Escalation is key.

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Fair enough.

She could have just ignored the text. Is there a way back?

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Send her a picture of your dick.

She could have ignored it, but you did that red in the face comment, so she was getting back at you.

Is there a way back? You need to meet up with her again. Not necessarily a date experience, but something that you can do to escalate. By her comment, you may be hard pressed to get her to agree to meet up. But you can always try:

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What you're saying makes sense. I didnt think of it like that. It was just a joke, but she obviously took offence.

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It clearly a retort to your attempt at teasing. Either you come back with something that shows you can handle it or you bow out. But I would suggest you keep yourself from being in these situations in the first place. You can be nice to chicks and still get laid bro. Women just want to feel desired. Any attack on the fact that you may you view them as being undesirable and they behave the way she just behaved.

P.S. *Desireable* is not exactly a reflection of physical appearance. Women take care of their appearance because that's what they think we find " desirable ". If we suddenly found smelly over weight women attractive women would be getting surgery to expand their stomache.

Just make her feel desirable despite anything physical and she's yours.

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I agree and I disagree.

making a woman feel desired is a good thing, but too much sugar in the tea and the tea gets thrown out.
On the date we discussed, work (ok - bit boring), her desire to be a business owner, sex, dating, family, hobbies.. few other things. there are lots of good things I missed on talking about and it wasnt an exciting date but it wasnt a bad chat.

I failed to escalate, but It didnt feel right (chinese and a little bit stiff).

I have become much better on text in recent times and have gotten great results from teasing. Perhaps this was a bit close to home for her and not seen as funny hence her lashing out.

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Absolutely man. You can tease and still get laid. You can do anything and still get laid. It's not what you do its how you do it. I'm just saying it isn't necessary.

But I had the " so what attitude " to her response. Who cares? Just reply and then sleep with her. Or don't reply, call her later and then sleep with her. Or any other of the million ways you could handle it.

I saw this post as a bit faggity.. no offense. It was like " this girl had a witty come back. What do I do? "

Kinda gay if you ask me lol. But to each is own.

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Lol..

Well, I wasnt so sure she did have a witty comeback.I was trying to figure out if she was throwing the ball back in my court or just uninterested.

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Cue her smalltalk comment. I don't think she took offense to the joke so much as was giving a commentary on the evening. Escalate with the next girls.

Sounds like you played way too much tedious annoying text game with her and she doesn't want to start getting into some back and forth pointless convo over text.

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This.
Also did you wait a whole 24 hours to text her back?

Kiss on the cheek??? What is up w/ that?

You have mentioned a few time that she is Chinese. That could be one of your problems too. Do you think that you have to be extra nice or something b/c she is Chinese?

So you don't see her as girlfriend material but you just want to fuck her. Man you are a disgusting, manipulative, little cunt. Leave her alone you loser. Do you really think an intelligent lawyer will be interested in you and your childish, fucking small talk? Can't stand dudes who don't want women as girlfriends but just to fuck them like they are a piece of fucking meat to get off on. Grow up you creepy, fucking piece of shit and don't contact her again. She is way out of your league and the last thing she needs is a desperate cunt like you wanting to get your pathetic end away. Got that?