First of all. I will apologize for my bad english, see i'm from sweden. Anyway i started seeing a girl from my job but none of us still work there. we start making out like the first day we saw each other in my bed, i got the feeling that she didnt know what to do/how to move. We met a couple of times more, but as soon as it escalated into sex she pulled back, and i figured out shes a virgin. Not only that, she also told me afterwards that she NEVER HAD ANY BOYFRIEND IN HER LIFE before, so i understood that shes quite serous about all this relation/virgin-thing. She later told me (ofcourse) that she wanted to continue see me, but maybe as friends probably cause she don't know where to put me. But In opposite off being frindzoned beacuse a lack of intimacy and physical escalation and all that, i got the feeling she felt confused and friendzoned me because im like the first guy that come into her life, and dont know if im the "one" to come change her innocent state about all this, her totally-unknowledge about guys also made it all very more complicated suddenly. After that, i understood that the whole thing is gonna be very complicated since everything i actually came for was getting laid. SHE IS NOT MY ONE-FIX! So i don't know if it's even worth the job. After all this, I stopped seing her and have contact with her, since there's no way I'm gonna be a guy-friend for her, thats NOT what i came for. What is your idea about all this? Should i make any more moves to get to her virgin and if/what is that then? Or shoould i just keep going, and leave her alone
Hope i doesn't sound like a "totaly" douche =P PS. If we where in a movie, she would be that sweet outsider,studying virgin girl that other girls look down at, And i would be that badguy looking type that people think is a totally player and douche, and i guess it's not to my advantage here, but figured out it shouldn't be a problem either cause if then, she would have been interested all in the first time. She kept sending flirt-smileys our whole time together. I don't try to brag, just helping you out getting a view of the situation ok!
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