I wondered how do you kino/escalate on a date without making it too obvious. I know there is certain things you can say like 'what is that perfume your wearing' and then go in closer to smell her. Other things might be asking to see her watch or bracelet and then gently touching her arm. I don't really know anymore. Has anyone got a list of things to say which can encourage touch without making the situation awkward?

I'm not good at escalating at all. on pretty much all my dates the only time I would make contact would be a hug at the beginning and end of the date.

thanks.

- Hugs

- High fives

- Palm reading

- Play punches

- Comparing scars (everyone has scars on their hands) - this one is tested and while it sounds morbid, is actually fairly entertaining.

- Holding hands

- Hand on the back


If you're on an ACTUAL date with the girl, she already said yes... she's at least got some basic interest in you - so she's expecting escalation (at least to a point). Don't feel bad or make excuses for escalating with kino - accept that it's expected behavior (and moreover, if you don't escalate, you won't be getting a second date).

If your walking out a bar or whatever let her go infront and then place your hand on the bottom of her back as you come up beside her.

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Don't mean to post from my site, but I wrote an article about exactly this topic:

https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/ ... -on-a-date

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Thank you man! Was very helpful!

Always when you talk, start by touching the arms when you start a new story, or try to get some more attention.

Use the 2 steps forward and 1 step back rule.

Good luck.

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