I've been fucking this girl on and off and now she's getting really attached. My best friend and her have birthdays within a couple days of each other and both of them want to take seats in my car to go to a concert. Best friend has wwaaayy higher priority.

How do I give her the "talk" to stop her feelings of attachments or fix things and also tell her she can't go without feeling like a dickhole?

Any advice greatly appreciated.

Cheers,

Why don't you tell her that you and your friend had already made plans for that day?

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Because my friends are super indecisive (like me) and didn't know if they really wanted to go or not so I made space for the girl and her lady friend hoping it would lead to a threesome. Now I have to cut the bad news to her and tell her she probably can't ride with us.

Makes sense now. You're right, it would be a dick move not to take her and her friend. But like you said, you have priorities. My friends would be upset with me if I blew an opportunity for a threesome just to hang out with them. Wish I could help you with this.

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Put your mates in the trunk ? lol ive done that loads of times ! great fun !

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Dude, fuck your friends. If they can't tell you whether they want to go to a concert or not thats their problem. Your not being a bad friend if you offered it to them and their answer was maybe, I'm not sure, and then you offered it to your girl.

Take the girls. Tell your friend that your sorry, but he should have said yes, or at the very least, I'll let you know by such n such date.

She got attached because you put the moves on her. You made her feel okay with being as attached as she is at some point. Most of the time by openly accepting all of her affection. I make a point to deny a girls affection every now and then because I know that people are creatures of habbit and I personally don't always want affection. I want a girl to know that there is going to come a time in which I don't want affection. And so I reject it at times early on even when I do want it so ican prepare her for the future in which I may not want it.

So at this point you've got yourself into a sticky situation by being a tad bit irresponsible. And you know stickers don't peel off without leaving a mark. So you gotta just keep it real with her. Be nice of course and suggest that you take her out the next day to make up for it. But it's your boys birthday it is what it is. Bros over hoes. Especially the ones that have been your friends for a long time.

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Nicely worded. I told my friend we would do something better instead. I will take the girls and one other guy and also tell her that I'm not her boyfriend and she needs to chill out.