I met this very hot girl at Starbucks about a year ago. We probably talked for about 20-30 minutes and I invited her to go with me over to my buddy and his girlfriend's place to watch the UFC fight after she expressed interest in UFC after I told her my plans for that night. When we show up (this was a few days after my birthday), there's quite a few people there already (men and women) and I introduce her to everyone. At some point they bring out a small cake and sing happy birthday to me, which was real cool, because I don't endorse trying to create DHV but it happened right there. The girl I was with hit it off with all of the girls and they did something that was cool and not cool at the same time, they invited her to the BBQ that was happening the next day. So I end up having a date to the BBQ. That same night we go back to her house and we end up having sex. We end up having sex a few times over a two week period and she ends up saying that I have never taken her out on a real date and she wanted to have one before we had sex again. We end up at my buddy's house again, we have sex in his spare room without ever having that "real" date. Later on I find out that she is pissed because of this through by buddy's girlfriend. So here we are about a year later and I haven't talked to this girl since, but my friend's girlfriend keeps telling me that I should call her because she still asks about me even though she won't show up to anything if she finds out I'm going to be there.

Here we are about a year later and I find out that she's going to be at my friend's annual Halloween party that's happening tonight and she told my friend's girlfriend that she is looking forward to seeing me there and that she misses hanging out with me. So this news makes me happy, but I already invited another girl to the party and I refuse to uninvite her for some girl that I haven't talked to in a while. So right now my plan is to treat the girl I'm taking tonight the same way I treated the girl I met at Starbucks and still be very cordial with the girl from Starbucks. Hopefully she will be jealous but not an angry jealous.

Here's what I've been leading up to in this...
I find myself second guessing my approach to this. I'm definitely sure that I should treat the girl I'm taking tonight as my focal point. But should I give the original girl any attention (friendly at most) or should I just acknowledge her presence and leave it that?

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Hey man I was in a similar, but different situation recently albeit different details how I handled it can be applied to your situation.

I met a girl she was cool, but had a lot of shit going on going back to school family issues work etc. She would go a week or more without returning my text I was too dumb to see it was a test, but I'd call her to see how things were going she cut me off for being needy meanwhile I was dating her and I cared about her. That's the story.

Now here's how I handled meeting her again. I was at a boxing event after my fight the photographer wanted to take pics of just me, and this other girl I was with. Guess who walked by right then?

Afterward I'm getting something to eat she comes up I'm polite to her afterall I'm not a dick, but I'm more interested in getting something to eat and hanging out with the girl I was with so we talk a bit I say bye go back to the other girl we hang out for the rest of the night. Now after nearly 6 months guess who is texting me again?

Basically don't be a cold dick be polite and cordial just don't give her huge amounts of attention.

That's my story hope it helps you good luck!

This was so simple and I was overthinking it. Here's how it worked out. I went to the party with the new girl and she was really cool. Pretty much all of my friend's are cool people so she got comfortable really quickly, but she stuck by my side the entire time. At some point we sat down and were just talking and the girl I used to hang out with came in, but I missed seeing her walk in. So at some point the new girl asks who the girl that kept staring over at us is? I look over and there she is, looking really good, but she had already turned away. I told her that it was a girl that I used to go out with. She asks is it over and I confirm that I haven't seen her since last year. She was cool with that answer and she said nothing else after that, but she clearly tried to mark her territory by continuously touching me and showing affection. I walk over to the keg to refill my beer and the original girl I dated was standing close by, so I looked over at her and she smiled and said hi...I pulled her in for a hug and said it was good to see her and continued on to the beer. The party went on and most of my friends were sitting there chuckling and laughing at the situation, but everything stayed positive.

So the next evening I get a text from the old girl.

Her: Was good seeing you last night.
Me: Yeah...you too.

About 45 minutes later

Her: Was that your girlfriend. She's pretty.
Me: Yeah...she is pretty.
Her: Yeah that's you're girlfriend or yeah she's pretty?
Me: She's not my girlfriend but she's real cool.
Her: You should make her your girlfriend then.

This morning.

Me: Maybe one day.
Her: Yes, but you know she can do what I can do.
Me: What is it that you can do?
Her: You're smart enough to figure that out
Me: Lol. I must not be smart enough. You'll have to tell me.
Her: I'll tell you next week at Tatiana's if you show up for football. But you can't bring that girl

I'm at my friend's every sunday for football and she never shows up. Now all of a sudden she's going to be there.

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Well done man.
The power of social proof/envy/whipping their emotions up. Some guys say they don't understand women - I guess they never observed them in enough real life situations like yours. I think that is also because maybe they don't realize women are led by emotions, men by logic. It becomes almost comical how predictable they become in various situations such as this.

Thought I'd just update this a bit to complete how everything worked out.

Sunday morning at around 10:00am
Her: Are you going to be there today?
Me: (no reply)

I saw the text but chose not to answer it. About a half an hour later, my friend's girlfriend says to me "X just asked if you are here." I tell her to just tell the truth. So the girl arrives and she hangs out with the rest of the girls that are already there and us guys are watching a game. At some point the women (3 of them) make their way into the living room and the girl I used to hang out with plants herself right next to me with her hip touching mine(I was like damn...she's kinoing me).

Her: Did you get my text?
Me: Yeah...I meant to answer it but I was a little busy.
Her: You were ignoring me. You ignored me at the party too. Then you ignored me when I walked in.
Me: No, I said hello each time I saw you.
Her: Yeah whatever.

At this point every joke I made was hysterical to her and I knew I had her on the hook. I knew I had her on the hook last week, but it just confirmed it all. At halftime I tell her to go to the store with me so I can grab more beer and she complied. The rest of the day was like all the other times we hung out except that we hadn't kissed, but I knew it was there if I wanted it. I just chose to try to build a little more tension. By the time the games were over and everyone ate, she asks what I'm doing for the rest of the night. I tell her that I'm going home and watching the Walking Dead. She tells me how much she loves that show and asks if she could come watch it with me. I tell her to follow me back to my house.

We get to my house and we kick just hang out and talk until the show begins. We watch and I tell her that I have to be up early for work the next day. She says that she's kind of tired and doesn't feel like driving and asks if she could just sleep at my house. I said that it was fine. Still haven't kissed her yet.

So she gets into bed with me and I close my eyes.

Her: You're just going to go to sleep?
Me: Yep.
Her: You're really tired?
Me: Not so much tired. I just know I have to be up early.
Her: Ok.

She turns her back to me and I'm thinking I may have messed up. Probably after about twenty minutes she turns around her and puts her thigh across my crotch and starts rubbing her leg up and down...eventually kissing and then sex.

She left this morning and was happy about everything and sent me a text saying that she was going to cook for me sometime this week. Seduced two women for the price of one.

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Atta boy

well played boss,

You should definitely bring the new girl because that will spike massive amounts of preselected attraction in not only the starbucks girl, but in other girls there as well.

Your best bet is to just focus on your own path, keep being the badass that these ladies keep flocking to. Don’t worry about getting the attention of the new girl, don’t worry about playing it cool or hooking up with either of them. If you just focus on having a great time with the girl you are bringing, then people (including the starbucks girl) will just naturally gravitate towards you and your good emotions. If she approaches you talk her up! You will more than likely be at the top of your game because you will subconsciously know that you don’t need her because you already came here with a different girl. This is going to help you portray the confidence and attitude that she will FVCKING CRAVE.

Just keep being awesome and have some fun with it bro. Good luck

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This is great shit man.

The funny thing is, if you were to have told me this exact story 7 years ago, I would have said it's a bunch of bullshit that you made up. There's no way that a girl would see you out with another girl and then try to get back with you, she would be to angry, if you don't respond right away to her texts you're being rude, etc...

But now, being in this for long enough, it's so easy to step back, analyze every detail and go "yea you played it perfectly and this all makes sense." It's like looking in to the matrix from the outside.

Brilliantly played.