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PostPosted: Tue Oct 21, 2014 4:37 pm 
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I've been looking at a few members who've gotten a lot better at PUA in barely more time than I have. I feel that I should be doing a lot better at this point, but I haven't laid anyone.

With this being said, I've gotten a lot farther then I was since I started the Journal. I can open no problem. I even opened a 2 set and according to AFCJoe I did really well. Anyway, you can't tell how far you've gone by looking ahead when you don't know where you're going. When I look back I see how much better I've gotten.

I also don't (and can't) use canned stuff. It just doesn't work. Maybe that's why other people do better at first but I have a feeling once I'm gonna be good I'll be really good!

Anyway, I had to stop myself from trying to open sets today. Otherwise I'd be late for class!

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 21, 2014 6:50 pm 
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So I just had an awk moment with a girl I was gaming. She was being akward and I said "Do people ever say that you are akward?" It normally breaks the ice with HB's and I can get them to relax and laugh. Apparently (even though she was acting nervous) she said she wasn't, so it became a bit akward.

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 21, 2014 8:04 pm 
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Lol, that's really funny, it got awkward after you called her out for being awkward. I would suggest whenever an awkward situation does come up though override your natural response and just soldier through it. She'll only feel as awkward as you do


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 22, 2014 4:38 pm 
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Lol, that's really funny, it got awkward after you called her out for being awkward. I would suggest whenever an awkward situation does come up though override your natural response and just soldier through it. She'll only feel as awkward as you do
No genie, why would I change something that normally works?

It normally works mate, it actually makes them less akward but she didn't think she was being akward (even though she seemed interested she could barely hold a conversation). That was the wierd part. She didn't even know she was acting nervous.

That's the problem with this generation, they don't know how to have a normal conversation. They're always being distracted by there phone or something else.

Anyway, I've been reading other journals and I need to F-Close. It seems that with my approach of being more natural I have the advantage of improving inner game but still haven't F-Closed. Fuck.

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 24, 2014 9:15 pm 
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Something wierd happened to me. I forgot who a chick was (oops) but she didn't mind (I introduced myself once when she was working at the front desk). This other girl that I know teased me about it and I called her abnoxious (not in an inflamatory way at all). This fat chick started talking crap about me. The chick who I called abnoxious apologized. The fat chick was being a cung (I guess that's what happens to people when they can't get laid, lol).

Anyway...

Field Report:

So last night I sat down with a random girl who wasn't shy but was one of those quiet types who doesn't like to talk (an introvert for all intents and purposes). I find it difficult to game introverts. We talked about normal bs (what is your major? yes I know the question rule). I then asked "What do you want to do in life? ...and don't say princess! She just said "I think I'd be good at that" (she wasn't all that enthusiastic). I conversed with her a bit longer until I thought to myself "Hey, I have nothing to lose, I may as well try a new strategy." I said "Let's play a game". She said "Umm, Okay." in a skeptical manner. The game was that we each had to tell eachother a fact that the other didn't know. It could be about anything, including ourselves. She enjoyed it but had to go. I N-Closed her. She told me "Thanks for sitting with me, I was pretty lonely".

I came up with that routine on my own, I'm pretty proud of it. Now I just need to find out how to text her!

Lessons Learned:

1. Introverts want to be opened, but it takes work. They'll even be grateful if you're successful.
2. Many fat women are bitchy (ie the fat girl who cockblocked me during the scavenger hunt, the girl I just mentioned, the girl who invited me to go with her and her friend and just started insulting me, ect.)

The AFC's think women are mean, they're not. It's just the fat cunts!

Anyway, My game has taken a step for the better, but closing ugh! I'm gonna go out tonight and tommorrow. What's wierd is here there are more parties on thrusday than friday, but I just didn't feel right on thursday.

Anyway, happy hunting mates!

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 26, 2014 3:28 am 
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So I finished day 2 of Blueprint decoded. Half way done. I hope day 3 and day 4 are more applicable, but there's still useful information like frame control and stuff.

Field Report:

I went out yesterday and was total AFC. I could have pulled these girls when the guy went back into the house (2 guys and 2 girls and one guy left). The chick opened me and I could have stole them like Tyler from RSD would, but it occured to me too late. Damn.

I then went to this house party and couldn't game because I was just uncomfortable.

There's more to the story but in terms of game that's all thats worth mentioning. I'm going out again tonight. I hope I'm more sucessful. I need tips on daygame and nightgame (like how to get an insta date and stuff like that). I've only done an insta date once early in the year.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 26, 2014 5:36 pm 
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So I went out last night. I realized that I could have K-closed 3 different girls last night but I didn't really think so then and I just seemed out of state. Fuck. I should just go for it, even if it fails. Chances are that she wants it anyway.

This one girl just happened to only be talking to me. When I left she'd just stand around. RSD even said if a girl does this its a good sign, that you are the provider of good emotions.

I am not making this mistake again. I'll just go for it. I'll write it on my phone to remind me and everything.

What sucks is that it was pretty much dead tonight. There weren't to many parties.

Anyway, Lessons learned:
1. Go for it
2. If I do I'll probably shift in-state

And I should probably finish RSD soon. I wish I could go to clubs instead of parties. I also wish there were more parties where there is dancing (I've only been to one). It's easier to start kino that way.

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 4:11 pm 
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You know how you have to have that positive attitude to sarge? i don't think I'll be able to have that mentality for this week. Simply put, a douchebag professor who has it out to me (He used to be a bouncer, a fucking bouncer!!!) has been fucking with my life for a while, but now he's out to get me. He's been sending me threatening emails and shit so fuck.

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 29, 2014 8:44 pm 
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I flipped the switch and am back in the mood. I thought I'd be out for a week, turns out only for a day and a half, lol.

I've been practicing a lot in the mess hall. I won't give a field report. I've been noticing that I ask too much questions, I just gotta talk. It's a common mistake. It's better to start talking and then she chimes in rather than trying to engage her with questions. This could have been causing some problems.

I also still don't know how to text a girl which is a problem with day game, but I want to finish RSD Blueprint first.

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2014 9:57 pm 
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At lunch today, I opened a guy and a girl. I was clearly leading the set and it was great (Nothing that I haven't posted here before, so I won't go into detail). Then a 2 set sat down and I couldn't really engage them.

Here's what is interesting. I was wearing a tinfoil hat and a linux T-shirt (I was supposed to be Tinfoilhat linux (an operating system). I was opened by a girl coming out of the ups store. I was struggling with a bike and some packages. She opened me with was I supposed to be the guy from futurama. I told her no and explained. She turned out to be a Computer Science major. We talked for a bit. She asked whether she had frosting on her lips. She was eating a cupcake. I did the Mystery trick of wiping it off (MM is only good for tricks, not full game). She helped me with the packages and I got her back to the dorm. I gave her a ginger beer for her help (It wasn't a DLV, I wanted to thank her for helping me). She N-closed me under the pretext that she needed help with programming. I said "Oh, getting my number over a false pretext?" She laughed and said "I'm not the one who wiped frosting off of a stranger's face". This is where I fucked up a bit. At this point it was safe to show interest but I didn't. I said that she didn't get it and how funny it would have been if she just walked around until someone pointed it out for her. She seemed dissapointed (at that point I DHV'd so much I wouldn't be suprised if she got the "I'm out of your league" feeling from me). So oops! I find it awesome that I was the one being chased, I do feel a bit bad for the girl though (yes I gave her my number).

Anyway PUA teaches AFC's to play hard to get. I guess I played it a bit too hard, lol.

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 01, 2014 3:51 pm 
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So I went out for halloween last night and couldn't find anything with the right vibe. What I realized is that I'm not really a night game person, or at least am not good with house parties. The underage drinking that I see I can handle but once there's any weed I just shift out of state.

I'll go out again alone tonight and see what I find, but yesterday isn't as exiting as I thought it would be. The Field Report that I had yesterday shows that I should focus on day game. Also, 7 days vs at most 2 nights a week, wich would be better?

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 4:15 am 
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My fucking lazy ass cunt roommate brought up how he isn't comfortable with "The pickup thing" to my RA before even talking to me. I didn't even talk to him about it.

Ironically he could use my advice more than anyone. His crush (Who was an HB6, lol. Wanna talk about low self-confidence when you have a crush on an HB6) ditched him at a party because they wouldn't let guys in. Ha. At first I felt bad for him but now I'm glad this happened. I may switch rooms so I can be with AFCJoe (Who's a member on this site with some confidence issues who I've been trying to help).

Anyway, I was flirting with this cute Japanese exchange student (Meh Liek Asians, OK?) who was definately into me. Then her friends sat down so I couldn't N-close.

What's funny is before this I was sitting with a guy from Kuwait who desperately wanted a GF. When he left I talked to the Japanese chick and got her name. I then introduced them to eachother. He AFC'd out. I should have gotten him into the game.

On another note, I'm trying to build a PUA network in Boulder. Even if they're other AFC's I can get them into it and at least have a fucking decent wing. Any Ideas on how to start this? Thanks.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 07, 2014 1:18 am 
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Just finished The Blueprint Decoded. Gonna go through The Daygame Blueprint and start 60YOC because I've heard a lot about it. I may go out tonight, I may not. We'll see.

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 08, 2014 2:13 am 
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Background:

When I was a total AFC (before I even knew about pickup) I played Men's Rugby. This was last year for context. Even though I was still in highschool I practiced and played with the men. I met a kid a year older than me who isn't exactly the smartest, has pretty bad ADHD, but was just a really nice guy. He goes by Jay.

I went over to Jay's place and we went to the mall. Jay is no PUA, but really wanted to sarge. Me being me back then, I was all like noooo. We didn't sarge, but he always would talk to me about women even though he wasn't good with women.

The crazy bastard ended up dating a 27 year old (he's 19). He didn't fuck her though. It's still holarious because it's J (seriously, that guy had already built attraction with some gangster latina chick. He then said "If your left leg is thanksgiving and the right is christmas can I visit you inbetween the holidays?", the kid's crazy).

Anyway, I ended up surpassing him on this journey. I have now inducted him into the game. This night I send 3 DVD's filled with a shit ton of PUA material. RSD - Blueprint decoded, Mystery method, Stealth attraction, 60YOC, the daygame blueprint, all kinds of stuff! I hope that during thanksgiving and winter break, we can tear it up. If he actually learns the material he could become a pretty good wing. I'm exited for this!

P.S. How do you recruit people into the game? I need some wings in Boulder. It's always touchy with guys.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 10, 2014 10:38 pm 
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One of the things that I've noticed that I've been doing is that I'm using night game tactics for day game. I'm going through the daygame blueprint right now. Hopefully this will help.

Inner and Natural game helps both Day game and Night game, but there are still underlying diferrences.

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