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| chase14 | PostPosted: Sun Oct 26, 2014 1:57 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Jul 14, 2013 12:51 am Posts: 6 | | Hey guys,
I was in a situation last night, and I would love to know how everyone here (especially experienced PUA's) would have handled it.
My friend and I were in a typical club, loud, noisy, busy. There was an insanely hot blond (face HB9, body 10) with her friend (HB8) at the front of the stage (usually the venue has concerts on other nights) dancing in these unbelievably tight leggings. When I say dancing, you have no idea. She was dancing like a stripper, but better than any stripper I've ever seen. Everyone in the vicinity couldn't keep their eyes off of this girl. Guys were picking their tongues off of the floor and girls were staring in half jealousy, half annoyance/disgust.
A few guys tried to approach her, but she was having none of it and blew them off before they really had a chance to attempt to yell anything in her ear. Untouchable is the word that springs to mind.
Her HB8 friend got hit on a couple times too, but she blew them off just as quickly.
Since she was facing the stage most of the time, it was pretty difficult to approach this girl any way other than from behind.
So... What would you have done? I'd love to hear some suggestions/opinions! My club game is pretty awful (I'll admit it), so I'm open to hearing what everyone has to say!
Thanks guys
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| Lulushu | PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 9:06 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Jun 16, 2014 6:27 pm Posts: 63 | | The only thing that comes to my mind here would be forgetting about them and building some dance floor reputation, as in going for pretty much every other girl out there. From what I've seen, hot girls love being the center of attention, and if they see that you are going for everyone but them, it seems sort of like a disqualification, so obviously they will want to qualify themselves in your eyes. From what you've described, they seem to know their worth and that they can go to pretty much any guy in the club they want and they won't be ignored.
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| Stenic1 | PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 3:43 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Fri Jun 20, 2014 5:32 pm Posts: 388 | | A few ways you could approach this it would have had to have been pretty awesome dancefloor game.
1- exactly what lulush was saying build up a group of girls dancing with you who want you. position yourself close enough for them to see but not as if your in there radar. Wait for them to move into your radar.
2- You could go for a direct approach of yelling dance off if your a good dancer and fancy the challenge.
3- wait for them to move off the dancefloor or wait for a distraction.
These are the type of girls who know what there worth... the type who would take a neg and pounce on it -
'wow those dance moves are terrible my sister does better and shes 2 !' this would lead her to most likely engage you angrily and ask if you had any better. Boom your in there then just run solid game thats on point. Winning these kinds of girls is the reason i got into the game. _________________ You can fail all your life but still achieve more than those who did not try.
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| neo87 | PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 4:25 pm | |
| Offline | | Ask a mod for a custom title | Joined: Sat Jun 20, 2009 1:32 am Posts: 3904 | | You said your club game socks. Work on that first before figuring out how to approach the hottest girl in a crazy scenario. Walk before you run.
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| Hunter_Foxe | PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 5:37 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Tue Sep 18, 2012 8:24 pm Posts: 2044 Location: Nottingham, UK | | I agree with the above low risk method, but if you don't want to bother with social proof / pre selection, there is another medium risk method i have used with mixed success in the past...
Her dancing behaviour is attention-seeking. So simply don't give her any attention. Dance near her but act like she doesn't exist. Look right through her like a ghost. If she clocks you, she will try harder and harder to get your attention. Basically by being near her but not acknowledging her hotness, she feels 1) unattractive 2) invalidated and 3) like you see hot women like her (and hotter) all the time, so you are therefore more fuck-worthy.
Alternatively, there is the high risk method which is to just caveman her. Drag her away by the arm or even better, pick her up and throw her up in the air. By doing this, you are sub communicating to her that 1) you don't give a fuck 2) you do whatever the fuck you want 3) she is being a stuck up little brat who needs to lighten up and stop taking herself so seriously.
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| Eddie Fews | PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 7:20 pm | |
| Offline | | Read My Book |  | Joined: Thu Jun 27, 2013 8:08 pm Posts: 5028 Website: http://www.EddieFews.com Location: New York City | | Grab her by the wrist and pull her to face your direction.
With attention seekers you have to be BOLD. We'll I think you always have to be bold.
The greater the risk the greater the potential reward.
Now sure you may end up looking like an idiot if the boldness doesn't work. But if you're worried about looking like a idiot, you can stick to getting laid 3 times a year. _________________ Need Coaching? For 1 on 1 Coaching via SPAM, Phone or Instant Messenger - Email: EddieFews@Gmail.com
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