| Joined simply as ive had to accept i need some advice.
Bit of background, im a 29 yr old professional in decent shape, own my own home, well rounded bachelor.
So, i've been aware of "the game" and PU for approx 7 years, the last 5 i feel I have gained a good grasp of things, and would consider myself succesful generally in what i set out to achieve. I have ran many plays, on many sets all over the UK, and have had some big wins, and also some big losses. Anyway to my problem.
I am currently dating 3 women. (1. HB-9. 2. a naive 8. 3. An insecure 6) All are kept on a very casual basis, where we see each other once or twice a week, some of these interactions are simply over drinks in our local bars (arranged not chance encounters) overs are simply booty calls/texts. I sleep with each of them about once a week.
However, Im currently encountering some issues with HB-9. I have known her for 3 years, as we mix in the same social circles. Weve messaged and flirted before over the years, but one or the other has had a partner at the time, or being tied up with other things. Its one of those thst should have happened but never did. Anyway, out the blue about 3 months ago, she messaged me out the blue, things moved along and progressed over the month until we eventually met up. After 8 weeks of seeing each other, things appear to be escalating. I do like this girl, sure she has a bit of a reputation. but I arent exactly squeaky clean myself in this respect locally. We have an amazing connection, and can talk for hours about shit. She is constantly laughing, touch her hair etc. She texts me often, and calls me every day at least once. While I still play fast and loose with my response times/ignore her, and shes alluded to this driving her wild, I know this isnt a major issue.
She has drunkenly said she still loves me, and was devastated when she found out i was sleeping with someone else. She also keeps banging on about how she isnt seeing anyone else, despite the fact I never asked this question until she brought it up. I have no problem with any of this, and have always been truthful about my situation.
Now shes a stunning woman, and she knows it, and was very quick to start sending me suggestive pictures (lingerie snaps, well position cushion shots, etc) as in after 2 weeks. Now on Snapchat she keeps hiding her top friends by deleting them and readding them. (Ive done it myself at points) But my question is why? I havent asked her about this, or once mentioned who she messages or whatever. She has a phenomenal sex drive, and we literally spend all our time together in bed, which is fantastic of course, but when I dont really know where she is or what shes doing most of the time, it does make you wonder.
On top of this shes making a concerted effort at the moment to get me to hold it down/put some type of formal "label" on us. I could see us together as a couple in the future, but im just unsure whether shes trying to play me, something about the whole thing just feels off.
I normally at this point nail and bail on it, but there is something about this girl that i cant get enough of.
Thoughts appreciated.
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