Opinions and views on this topic are very much welcome.

It's been a while since I've posted anything on here, and to be honest my lifes been a rollercoaster.

I've been single for 5 years, and haven't ever really changed whether my thoughts on wanting to settle down. But there are a couple of girls I meet now and again I genuinley do see a future with.

One was a mistake, you'll see from my previous posts I fell for a girl in a LTR and we ended up meeting but I played it wrong, and consequentley... drove her into someone else's arms. Learning curve.

However, I moved on, partied, had fun, met more women and now I seem to be extremely attracted to a girl at my work... Who has a boyfriend. (I obviously enjoy to make it difficult for myself)

She's Hungarian, and she's gorgeous. I genuinley have had feelings towards her since we started speaking regularly at work. We get on really well for a couple of people who don't really know each other inside out. And at a recent works night out we spoke more, flirted and she added me on facebook.

We would tend to speak everyday and it contained high levels of flirting and teasing between us, even though she has been in a relationship with a fellow Hungarian for 3 years. And I could tell there was only a small amount of guilt.

Anyway, last night we all went out as a group from work and she was constantly around me, and if she wasn't... She wanted to be. I've gamed with this girl to the point she's openly said she likes me and wishes things were different etc so the attractiveness towards one another is there. She would constantly put her arm round my waist when speaking to me, asking me to "watch her drink" for her when she went to the toilet or for a cigarette, she would take hold of my hand while I was speaking to other people and squeeze it back when i would test her and squeeze it first. And subsequentley.. we ended up alone and kissing in the club we were at. Which has its positives and negatives.

Anyway, I'm no good in this particular area as I tend to do or say the wrong thing and nothing materialises when I want it to.

I need help from here, she has said she feels "a little bad" for kissing me but she had wanted to for a while. Also, she has told her parents she really likes me which must be a large indicator of how she feels, especially being in a relationship.

To give up 3 years of a relationship for me is a large ask, and waiting around could take years. So, what would you do? How would you approach it from now? I'm intrigued to know.

Thank you in advance.

PT

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"If it can be dreamed, it can be done"

First off, I get the attraction to girls who are unavailable. I myself seem to be attracted to women who play hard to get and generally have their own game they run. It is a challenge, and it makes things interesting.

Second, I think this is already in the bag. You've gotten her to cheat technically. I think you could turn it into full on sex under the right circumstances (your place as "colleagues", turn it into kissing, bite her neck, nibble on/breathe in her ear, then move into sex. Once you bang this girl she will eventually leave for you.

That said, if she cheated with you...And I don't condone stealing another mans girl. If a girl is taken, find a single one. Now if you would take a min to answer my question...

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