I need some advice here.
I've been talking on FB with a solid 9 for quite some time, I think more than a month and a half. We've been hitting it off pretty good but she doesn't give me her number or agrees to meet because of her busy schedule. But she's told me she'd like to! She even invited herself to my place once at 2am, but then said she's a bit drunk and it wouldn't be ok.
I've told her plenty of times "I'm gonna go xx and gonna take you with me". "I've saw this new coffee shop that opened recently, we should try it out" etc. She doesn't freeze me, but also doesn't agree. "Let's do this some other time" blabla
The most frustrating thing is that she told me how amazing and different I am from other guys that contact her and say how beautiful she is etc. "You're driving me crazy AGAIN". We even have our own code, but fuckkkkk she doesn't even give me her goddamn nr! Last night she mentioned that we can't add each other on whatsup because she can't install it. "A sudden error popped up!"
"I can personally attend to that and make sure your phone is perfectly fine". "Oh, that would be great!".
And then ofcourse said she has to go to sleep. "Byyyyyeee gonna go to sleep. Muah". And just signed out!
I freezed her out for a week or so in the past but then she contacted me saying shere the hell have I gone????

Any thoughts?

And secondly, how much text do you guys recommand before the date? I mean, should I just be cool and say hi, blabla like always or change it? I usually chat her up a bit a few hours before and 15min before the date make a call to ensure the date stays in place.

Firstly have you met this girl in person ?

the reason i ask as it is extremely suspicious her not giving you her number.
Have you's had explicit chat ?

My thinking here is its a possible cat fish but if you have met her in person and shes genuine im happy to give you advice.

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I bet her penis is big.

Seriously man, why waste your time with someone who is just an excuse manufacturer?

This.

Don't get hung up on people that you don't even know if they are real. Seriously. Go out and approach girls. In person.

Ofcourse we chatted. Thats the way we exchange texts!
She has over 100 likes on almost every picture. She's real man.

I've seen many fake profiles with a ton of likes. They add guys like yourself who like and comment on their pictures. They also do the same with girls.

Real or not --- it's beside the point...

He/She won't meet. He/She is wasting your time.

So you've met her in person before ?

Well in that case she see's you as a friend your friendzoned and trying to escalate and she isnt attracted thats why shes making excuses she doesnt want to be a dick.

Personally move on forget her bullshit.

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Nope. Go through her profile and see if she has any family members or if any of her friends are tagged in her pictures. See if any of her friends tag her in photos.

There's a 99% chance, judging by how you're being strung along, and by her excuses with her phone, that you're being cat fished, most likely by a dude, possibly by a girl.

Definitely ! thats always my first port of call if ive never met the person to find this out ! Especially her saying i could come to yours at 2am when drunk then backing out. That just sounds really suspicious to me.

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Yeah mate, she has female friends posting comments all the time! Also the about me section has been filled.

Posting comments like "hey i had fun this weekend!"?

Either way this girl is supposedly madly in love with you but can't be bothered to meet up or figure out how to work a phone properly?

Seriously, go out and meet other girls. She is wasting your time. Have more respect for yourself.