she is acting out at work now, flirting with me like crazy, looking at me so much and then ignoring me when I say Hi and it looks like she is trying to make me jealous with another dude, how do I get her to rein this shit in?

It's her problem and not mine but if the Boss and other people see her behaviour, then it becomes my problem.

We've already told you what to do.
Either do something with her, or friendzone her.

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Thanks bro, the thing is I have already said that we are good close Friends many times, I guess we are going to have to hook up to get rid of this tension, I need to let her know that this can never get out and will be between us only, I just hope she doesn't get clingy because then I will be in real trouble.

I've friend zoned her but she has been acting weird around me and after not seeing each other for 4 days or having any contact, she went bright red when I said hello to her on Monday, a few times this week she has walked over to my desk to ask me things and she still looks at me a lot and plays with her hair or gives me long stare and she often walks past my desk with her head down, I don't want any bullshit again so what is my next step?

Never shit where you eat. There are 3.5 billion women out there.

But only one of her bro, you are right though, it's funny she sent me a text as I typed this post and now isn't texting me back after I mentioned another girl geeeezzzz.

All the more reason to approach and meet more women.

I am just confused and puzzled by all of this, please help me understand...

She came along to a work dinner last night and she seemed fine, she would ask me to go out for smokes with her, punched me in the arm and we had a few laughs, but after I got home I got this Facebook message

Hey (my name) can you please stop texting me. I'm not gonna reply any more, our relationship is purely professional. You have a girlfriend.
B (a co-worker) has said that what you're doing is harassment and he's angry.

For the record I deleted her number a while ago and she texted me on Friday night to ask what time dinner was (she knew what time it was on and if she didn't, she could have asked someone else) also she didn't' say stop Facebook messaging me, just texting...I removed her from Facebook anyway.

We texted back and forth but I noticed that as soon as I mentioned another girl she stopped replying and told me on Facebook the next day that she left her phone in her room.

Last night I texted her to ask if she had seen some people (who forgot to pay for dinner), thanked her for coming along etc and told her why I had to leave early (family things) there was nothing sexual or anything like that in the texts.

I fail to see how this is harassment when she has pretty much always replied back, I also told her over a week ago that one of the boundaries we would have, would be to not text each other any more and she agreed with that or more like she said "haha I suppose that would work".

I have no idea why she would say that about the co-worker and bring him into it and it doesn't strike me as something he would say, so she must have been talking shit about me and if it was harassment, why doesn't she tell me it is then?

How do I deal with this?, I don't want to leave my job but I am just fed up with this girl's b.s. and drama...is this just all games and shit tests from her?, does she enjoy the drama?

Lastly, I did notice her looking over when I was chatting with another co-worker and she had a jealous look on her face.

Remember, about two weeks ago, that I said this would be unnecessary drama?

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Don't ever reply back to this girl. Only read the last few posts. Block, keep the text messages and emails though. Avoid her at work. Do not ever talk to her in person or over text, phone, SPAM, whatever. DO NOT REPLY. She has used the harassment word and involved coworkers. Don't take the chance that you have an innocent conversation and then HR comes looking for you. It's like sleeping with a girl and she comes back and tells you "my friends said what we did (sex) was actually rape and I don't know." You avoid this chick, because sticking your dick in again could lead to rape charges. Walk away.

yeah I remember but all I have done is what she asked and kept it civil and remained Friends, this is her bullshit, not mine.

Thanks neo87...It just sucks that we have to work together, yeah but she didn't say it was harrasment, she involved another coworker (whom she hardly talks to) and he said it was (which I personally think is bullshit and not something he would say)...I have never touched this girl...thankfully I am going away for 2 weeks, so that is 2 weeks free of her drama and bullshit.

Irrelevant who said it. The words been thrown out now.

How do I stop feeling like absolute shit about this?...this is what she wanted, she enjoys punishing me for whatever reasons she has.

Bro you should of fucked when you had the chance. Next time some chick flirts with you make sure you don't hesitate to stick your dick in her as soon as possible because then this is the shit that happens. If you would have fucked her 2 weeks ago none of this shit would have happend And every when would be happy now.

Now you can't fuck her because she knows how scared you got when she used the word harassment.
And she will use that against you if shit dosnt go her way.



You didnt fuck her and she got pissed, She shit tested you and she won. end of story.


I highly advice you to walk away from this one. This shit is going to get real ugly pretty soon if you keep it up. Don't even look at her. Ignore her. And don't even repeat the worlds harassment around her. Take that Shit away from her arsenal.