hey. I have a problem, I dont have anything to talk about with girls (or people in general) because I dont have anything to say. I started to think about this a few years ago. my mind is just empty, I dont think about anything and thats maybe why I don't have opinions. dont have anything to talk about with girls . Im not a nervous guy, when I have something to say, Ill say it. but it almost never happens lol

btw. I dont want to be full of shit. I don't want to come to girls in the street and ask them dumb questions or talk about shit I dont care.
Im really confused about all this. can you give me any advice please? how to always have something funny to say? how to improvise?

So you don't think about or care about anything and have no opinions, but how can you talk to girls about stuff that you really care about?

Where do people come up with these questions?

I didnt say I dont care about anything. I care about stuff. sport. army. games. and my other shitty problems.
but that's not something I would talk with about with girls.
edit: I said I don t want to talk about things I dont care. it doesnt mean I want to talk about these things with girls. i just want to always have something funny to say, without bullshiting her

Approach girls and keep talking til you don't think about this stuff anymore. And lower your standards for what you're going to talk about. How you say it is more important than what you're saying. Ask her questions, comment on her opinions, make guesses about her "you seem like a very independent girl" blah blah blah.

If you don't like small talk then you need to learn to like it.

I have a lot of girls where I serve. I do start situational conversations with them. But it doesn't last long every time, I suck at it.
Btw i do like small talk, I do say very dumb funny stuff when I have something. When I said 'no bullshit' I meant not starting a conversation by asking "my friend and I had this argument about......" and then asking her another bunch of stupid questions....

Cool, i thought you meant that you only wanted to talk about your interests with the girls. I agree that the "hey i need you to settle this, see, my buddy wants a tattoo etc" 'openers' are corny as hell.

If the convos are running out, once the smalltalk is over, simply ask some questions about her. Find out what she's like. As yourself if this girl has more going on for her than the way she looks.

Then tell her a little about yourself, where you're from, whatever comes to mind.

Then tell her you have to run and do X but you wouldn't mind seeing her again. Get her #.

The best convos are when you clear your head and go with the flow

You bascially bounce off what ever last sentence she says, keep doing that and it will be easy as hell.

You have your off nights though so everynow and then your chat is so useless and cringe ha

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Hot girls (usually the 18 to 24 something age group) love to talk about topics without content. They find fun and excitement in things that most men find silly. On the other hand, most men love to talk about content-rich topics. These are the topics that most women find boring.

You have to build up a stack of topics to facilitate your kino. Some topics that you should develop on are:

1. Nail art so you can hold her hand.
2. Shampoo so you can touch her hair.
3. Skin tone so you can caress her face.
4. Ab exercises so you can rub her tummy.

These are topics that women love to talk about because it is about how they take good care of themselves. You have to change topic though once the woman shifts the conversation to content-rich topics about herself like:

"By the way, I was a consistent honor student in high school."

"I won gold medals in track and field."

"I joined the marathon and finished second."

"I cook the best tasting lasagna ever."

When a woman changes the topic to make herself look good in your eyes, she is qualifying herself to you. Accept her qualification and drill deeper like:

"Wow, that's cool. So you studied really late while your friends were out partying or you got your smarts from your dad?"

"Jesus Fucking Christ! You must have great stamina and a healthy sex drive. Am I right? I would like to see your medals this Saturday."

"Amazing! What else don't I know about you? That's just so cool."

"Really? I want to try your lasagna. Come with me and let's get the ingredients. You're cooking dinner tonight at my place."

When a woman is trying to qualify herself to you, DO NOT COMPETE with her qualification like:

"You're kidding me. I am the class valedictorian. So are you the salutaturian or something?"

"Really, I won the national championships. So are you a regional champion at track and field?"

"I have always been first every time there is a marathon in California."

"Come on. You're pulling my leg. My cousin is a chef at a 5 star Michelin rated restaurant. My angel hair seafood spaghetti is definitely better than your lasagna."

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