hey guys just thought id do an intro before jumping in. 21 years old, in Aus... and pretty fresh to the game...(sigh)
I wouldn't say Im exactly a brand new newbie (slept with less than 5 girls in my life - all throughout high school haha) but I've always wanted to be one of 'those' guys. I hate the fact that I've discovered that i am your typical 'nice guy'.
Ive never ever studied the art of picking up, hence why i am here to seek advice.
My hobbies and a little background. Ex-Semi professional sports player. I go to the gym regularly, i work out and keep fit. i Like to go out and do normal shit like people my age do, bit of an introvert, somewhat confident however, smart and knowledgable and yeah. Ive been told I'm quite good looking so I'm sure this problem is not due to appearance!
Reason I'm here is that i am tired of being the typical nice guy.. better yet; hearing it! I am tired of going out on weekends and never being able to pull. I am sick of watching other guys able to do it. Im not sure where i fail, but i think i am simply just too nice. period. I don't have much experience at all to be honest. Most of the girls I've slept with, I've known from school and thus was just easier to open and take a shot. I believe i really need to work on how i communicate with girls (body language, verbal, non verbal, text, online, blah blah). i need to re-evaluate my views on myself, be more of an alpha, be way more confident and actually approach girls. I want to turn my whole world upside down and start again. I don't want to be that f***ing nice guy! Basically i don't want to continue life as the character i am now - its boring As F, sad, and womanless.
My goals are obviously to become a very successful pick up artist. I wanna be able to pick up anywhere and anyhow. I wanna drown in dat pussay. no, I'm serious hahah. I want to be able seduce women and have all the options in the world. There is a world of women i really haven't discovered, which is sad to say... because I've never learnt how. I want to be successful with women in every way and i do realise that takes ACTION.
I have absolutely NO IDEA where to start. I want to start over and leave the old me behind! If anyone can give me some direction i would be most grateful.
I respect the PUA forum community and i wanna say thanks in advance for taking the time to read this and helping guys like me out!
cheers.
CHAT