Last night I go over to a friends house to party and over the course of the evening, this chick gets super comfortable with me, leading to her and her friend laying on my chest in the early hours of the morning. They get up and say we're going to bed now. I say ok, then they come back in the room and tell me I should sleep on the couch in their room. I don't know these girls well at all so this comes as quite a surprise to me.

Nice.

They both jump in the bed and I set up on the couch away from them. We have some humorous conversations and THAT'S IT :/ I have NO idea how to escalate or grab my balls and just jump in the bed with them. So I end up waking up on their couch and them waking up and cooking. These girls kissed a couple times throughout the night so I'm pretty sure they're down to have some fun.

I spent the rest of the day, after waking up, chilling/vibing with one of the girls on the couch. There is a decent amount of attraction between me and this girl, but the other not quite as much. I'm thinking about sending her a message on Facebook, giving her my number, but I'm not sure how to proceed from here. They said after we left the house, we should do the same thing again some night. I agreed and left stupidly forgetting to give them/get their contact info. These girls are tied into a group of close friends so I see them quite often meaning I need to be a little careful about this.

Can someone offer advice on how to set the mood for the threesome e.g., "I'm not gonna lay on the couch like I did last time", and maybe provide some insight on how to proceed from here so I never make another amateur hour mistake like this ever again.

Sorry for the long explanation...

Ok, so what you should've done is asked them if they'd ever had a dual induction massage. They'll say no, then you explain that its when you have two people give you a massage at once. Tell them it feels really good because its four hands instead of two. One of them should hopefully ask you two to try it on them. If not, call one out and confidently instruct the other one to help you massage her. You can't act like a weenie here, you have to control the situation and make it seem like its no big deal. By the way, alcohol helps A LOT with this process.

From that point I'd hope you'd be able to figure out how to escalate from there.

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Like your style ninja. This could work really well. There was definitely alcohol involved. But, I'd like to be able to do this shit with a very small amount of alcohol or completely sober.

I am feeling out the other girl now. I told her I almost stormed in her room the other night and would have thrown her against the wall but the timing wasn't right (fail I know). She said "next time" This could get interesting. God damn I love some women.

Life gave you an opportunity and you neglected to grab it.

You're a man. Being a man allows you to exert your dominance. Being that you were given the green light to be in the same room you could have easily played around and said "there's no way I'm sleeping on the couch, make room "

You got the indicator of interest you were looking for, but you overanalyzed the situation. It happens. Next time, pretend it were you last day on Earth and go for it because a night without follow through is a night you'll forever regret.

Best Regards,

Ryan

^^ Excellent post.

It can be as simple as "damn this couch is uncomfortable as shit" (get up from the couch) "slide over"

Or

"damn it's fucking cold on this couch i'm freezing" (get up from the couch) "make room for me" (have each of them move to the sides of the bed and jump in between them so they can 'warm you up').

This way you're not creeping, walking over there drooling "ima put my dick in both of you"; you're giving a plausible (although made up) reason why you *need* to be in the bed and not the couch. It's subtlety and it's the same reason why you invite a girl to your place to listen to music or watch a movie instead of "why don't you come over and we'll fuck".

Lol the dual massage classic...

Personally you should have walked in the room and then jumped into the bed before them. Then play a cheeky role like if use want me out this bed use will have to fight me for it. this would escalate the kino with both parties... I would then say im sure i seen use 2 kissing tonight do use do that often and thats why use share a bed and want me out it or use can use my chest as a pillow again?

escalate again with initiating a 3way kiss and then boom take your shirt off let them strip each other and there you have it 3 naked people in a bed only one thing to do now penis enter vagina while another vagina is entered by tongue.

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These are all great responses. Like the idea of jumping in the bed and making them fight for it. I'll be fucking one of the girls this week and I'm just gonna straight up tell her I want to fuck her and her friend at the same time or have a threesome. Thanks for your advice, won't be lettin this slip through my hands again.

I agree with the asserting your dominance thing. Women will try to use words to tell you what to do and make you feel like a little bitch. "Go sleep on couch virgin boy!" But you can't let them do you like that.

I'm not saying to force yourself on them or overpower them or anything like that. But you can physically exert your will and they won't have the ability to square off to you or push you away like a guy can. They'll instinctively start acting submissive the more you act dominant. And vice versa.

When they are laying there, you could've gotten up and leaped into the bed in between them like a pro wrestler, they'll bounce around as you slam in between them. THAT is how you make an entrance and make your alpha presence known. Then you're in bed with them before they have a chance to do anything about it or try to make it awkward. There's not always a best course of action in these situations, so sometimes you have to just not give a fuck and dive in...literally!

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Please tell me that you didn't lay on that couch while they kissed in bed together. Please.

As others have said, you could have gone at this literally any way and you would have been in. They invited you in for fun. You denied them. You could have just hopped on the bed and said my back hurts when I sleep on couches, you could have talked about stress and massages, you could have said that you're their chaperon and have to sleep in between them because they can' be trusted together, you probably could have just yelled "naked slumber party", stripped down, and hopped in bed and still would have gotten to ride the tricycle.

lmao. I know man, hindsight is always 20/20. It'll come up again. When it does I'll update it here if you all really want to know :p I'm goin with ninja's advice. Seems solid, I've noticed she is doing exactly this, feeding me dominance. I've never had a girl do this, I just feel like slamming her against the walls while with other girls it's a bit slower. But I think the dominance needs to come from me naturally not because a chick is letting me. That's pussy shit.

You weren't a closer. Forget the three some stuff and the oppurtities they gave you. It should have been automatic that you would have hooked up with one of the chick's there, kissing or no kissing, couch or no couch. Figure out how to be the guy that always makes a move and gets laid instead of worrying about lucky opportunities.

Update: I fucked the one girl and it was just weird. I was dominant: grabbed her, kissed her, took her to her room, threw her down and she was a little resistant, but enjoyed it. No sexual or emotional connection at all just got super sweaty, neither of us came and it was over.

No words at all afterwards, 5 minutes of laying together naked then we started putting our clothes on. I have never had sex like that before... I was comfortable with her and in the moment, but maybe she just wasn't diggin it or expected more.


I can't even explain what was missing or what went wrong, but I'm not going to sit around like a bitch thinkin about it all week, fuck it I'm ready to game other women and make improvements.

You're right neo, this is what I'm going for.