steve jobs said he used LSD once and that was the best decision of his life because it helped him see things from a different perspective. or something like that. FYI i dont know what LSD is, I am guessing its a drug.

I am just wondering, is there anything I could use to loosen up or to think differently? I know the right way of doing this is to approach over and over again until I am desentisized. But that's too hard. I just cant do it. I have been out a lot and had a lot of opportunities but I just cant bring myself to talk. I am too tense and I care too much. when I get home, I feel like shit knowing that I didn't even try.

I dont want a temporary solution like alcohol or marijuana because hours later i will be back to my old self. I want something more permanent. is there anything I could use to change me?

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I have not failed 10,000 times. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. - Edison

You've made 478 posts on this wall and you can't even get up the courage to talk to a girl? Think about how lame that is for a couple minutes and commit yourself to changing.

They are just girls and they want you to approach them.

There is one and only one remedy to loosen up: Approach a woman. We all had to go through doing that first approach at one time or another.
"It takes courage to push yourself to places that you have never been before…to test your limits…to break through barriers. And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." - Anais Nin

LSD won't help you with women, trust me.

You are actually asking for a "magic pill" to make you better at picking up women. A lot of times noobs will indirectly ask for something like this in a metaphorical sort of way, but here you are literally asking for a drug that will make you better at pick up. That's not good bro, not good.

You have admitted that you have a mental sticking point which prevents you from approaching. Your inner game is messed up....badly.

There is actually a remedy for this which is mentioned all the time in this forum. You can approach men, wait staff, employees, and start up random conversations. Do this anywhere you go. Tell the girl at McDonald's "How's your day going so far?" Just get used to being conversational and personable. If you allow yourself to get frozen up inside your head with all this self-doubt, then no magic pill in the world will benefit you.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

what ever you do, DO NOT!!! use stimulants to loosen up.

Their is nothing worse than trying to game a chic while being wired. Fucking cant even talk get all nervous and shit.

you want to lossen up drink like 2-3 beers or some greygoose and cranberry.