Heya guys! So finally after some read on forum and such I finally decided to put my ass out there and asked a girl out, but I'm having a little of trouble.

Short Version: So after I meet this girl, I "asked" her number. I text her 1 or 2 days after that, I think, and been talking to her for a few hours. She blew all her cellphone money on texting me, so later on we talked on SPAM as this is more of a active texting. I asked her out she said yes. Next day, I send her a message just to talk and stuff and ask if next Monday she is up to it, and again she said yes. But here, is where things are getting a bit tricky. I waited one day to see if she would text me, she didn't. Next day I text her a bit late, and between the conversation she said "I won't be able to go out on Monday :/". This is where I'm confuse. She never texts me, when I text her she seems rather happy and puts on smiles on all sentences (but well, girls are generally nice and educated). I have no idea if she is interested. Also I didn't sexual escalated yet. Do you think I didn't show my intentions early on? Did I got full friend zoned? Should I text her again, and try to step up the game?

Detail: I meet this girl on a friend house. I spend there the weekend and she was there. So we kinda had a 3 "friends" weekend and I talked quite a bit with her. My friend isn't interested on her and never show interest. So she wouldn't expect me to ask her number on that weekend.

Hey man, texting should only be used to set up dates and nothing more. If she won't have an in person relationship with you, then she's wasting your time. You want to save the intimate conversation for in person, so you can make a move on her. This is a mistake I used to do a lot too, but once you get in the habit of keeping the texting to to less than a handful per interaction, it will increase your dates significantly. Also, when you text her, don't be in a big rush to reply.

This is correct advice. I'm going to add that you don't talk to her anymore. She's a waste of time.

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I disagree, i use texting all the time to joke and escalate. Dont get me wrong i arrange a date through text like the guys above said. But there are girls ive text constantly and sometimes when i dont text them i get a text asking why i havent spoke to them or what not. I'm good at texting though since i worked on it from a very young age early teens i was texting and using it to my advantage.

If i were you i would hold off and not smother her.

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Thanks all for the answers. Just wanted to give a quick update on my status.

So I've been talking all the time texting, mostly fun conversations. Nothing that is too emotional because some reason she isn't that type of girl that express feelings.
So I'm going to go out with her next Friday since this week she had class and couldn't go out with me, but, on last Thursday I meet with her at train station and went walking with her till her home. She invited me to go up, we talked and laugh. But here's the thing, honestly I don't know If she wants to get involved with me or she just really likes me (not enough to be boyfriend). Which is weird, since she is qualifying her self a lot to me. When I say something flirtatious (non sexual) she says "doesn't" know what to answer and says that she hates when I take her words away. I mean if she wanted to be friends with me why would she be with me 1:30h just talking to me at her home, and talking for hours at phone. But in the other hand, when I try to sexual escalate or even trying to get on the "cute side" small flirtation she doesn't express her emotions, so I don't go further than that because I get 0 reaction from her.
Should I go out with her next Friday and try to go for the Kiss? And try to see if this is going somewhere?

I honestly don't get some girls. Like 90% of times I get reactions, 10% they don't know what to say (aren't interested) but this one, god we have such a good link, but she doesn't express her self (it's part of her, nothing I can do about it)

1) Make sure the date is not too far in the future. Try to avoid arranging anything which is more than 3 days away.
2) Once you have made the "sale", i.e. She has agreed to the date, stop texting, unless she is initiating the texting. Even if she is initiating, you still need to cool off before the date to build tension. The more you text with friendly rapport, the more opportunity you give her to flake and you also destroy any sexual tension / anticipation for the date
3) Text her about 2-3 hours before your date to say you are running about half an hour late, to remind her about the date in case she has forgotten (if that's what you are worried about). Always works for me. I can count the number of flakes I have had on one hand.

This.

Yeah that's what makes me confuse. Most of you guys say I should text her if I want to, and some say better no to text.

Here's my opinion: Most girls SUCK at "game". And this one isn't that type of girl that want's to be ignored or that I should text just once in a while. She told me she was very surprised when I "ask" her number because she didn't expect it or that I would even remember her after asking her number. (She is kinda insecure so I get that she fights back at some big approaches by my side). Also I really like this girl, honestly I have a blast talking to her, but when I don't text her most times she doesn't text me back. On one side she can be busy, but like, once we start talking we talk about 6-8 hours straight conversation almost non stop.

I really hate this mind games, but I will hold off texting 1 day before she go out which is Friday. Let's she if she text me.

Yep, games... it's called "The Game" For a reason.

I'm not good at texting, so I tend to avoid it. I have a book that's just on text game that I'm gonna read later, but for now I'm gonna focus on more general materials.

Oh, and build rapport and tension!

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Just try to not read into it too much, you are propably young and inexperienced? You should follow up on her with texts casually and try for the meetup. If she tells you straight up she is not interested anymore or just ignores you for a long while then you just stop.

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I'm not really sure where you are at with this girl. The language you use is kind of confusing. I assume English is not your first language?

It's sounds like you need to build some attraction at this point. I would try to play some games with her, like the trust test, and have her hold her hands out and follow yours as you move them. Do a palm reading on her and hold her hands. Things like that.

You need to be able to physically touch a girl to loosen her up, but some girls make it really awkward to just kiss them or hold their hand, so you need to find ways to do it indirectly that seem innocent enough.

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Well, since I got quite a few reply's I will try my best to answer them correctly. Just want to start it by answering two "questions". I'm still young but really interested on the whole "Game" thing, I don't want to be a PUA or something, honestly just want to step up my game.

I'm confuse as well in "Where I am with this girl". We only been together 3 times. Both first times with friends and then I was alone with her. This 3 times were separated which one by 1 week and half (I know it's too long, I tried to go really, but she had 4 exams and had a extra class on the day we were supposed to go out, which was last Friday).
Texting: As far as texting goes, honestly I think we both really like to talk with each other but we don't die if we don't get a text message from anyone at the end of the day. We spend hours on it, but here's the only flaw I make, when I try to sexually escalate she doesn't reply on a flirtatious manner. More like, "I'm too shy to talk about this, or, I think this topic is very unappropriated to be spoken". (What I am positive about the way she replies, is that, she never had sexual relationships and didn't had a boyfriend from a very long time. Maybe she doesn't want me to think she is a common girl). To wrap this up we have chemistry texting each other, but at the end of the day, it's just texting where we can tough our answers, delete them if we don't like them and can take the time we want to reply.

The one time I was with her: This is where I seriously fuck up. I walked home after picking her up on a train station. She invite me up so I went to her place we talked a lot. But I couldn't touch her too much, mostly because I am embarrassed. The one time I did touch her I grab her hands, and said "you know what, I want you beside me" and I take her and made her sit by my side. After that we just continued talking...
I am totally lost on how to behave on this situations. I already saw the Gamble videos on "Kino?", but I don't have the balls to do that, and I am simply not comfortable around people I like.
This is where I really need advice!!!!

If I had to describe 3 aspect of her towards me:
1 - She qualifies her self a lot to me. Which is good, she thinks I am a man of high standards?
2 - She likes me, but she doesn't express it too much. Since she is a girl with a very high sense of humor, and she goes for it all the time, leaving no room for the emotions.
3 - She afraid of any sexual conversation, I think she doesn't want me to think she a "slut" -.-. So any sexual escalation will be very hard (BUT NO IMPOSSIBLE)

I apologize for any bad English on the text above. I hope to get feedback from you guys soon.
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