Have a friend who's room mate just got out of a long relationship. I've been trying to escalate with her without coming on too strong (big problem of mine). She sent me a friend request after I built a small amount of attraction by doing subtle things. I think this caught her fairly off guard as all our previous interactions were somewhat "friendly."

I start a German class next week and asked if she'd do my homework for me, she said "no, but you can come over and I'll help you." Should I use this opportunity to get her alone and make a move or should I approach differently. She's also going out with her room mate this weekend to party and she wanted to know if I was going too.

This could be a good opportunity to get out and have fun with her (and meet other girls if it doesn't play out), but I'm not sure about it for some reason. She's sorta shy and quiet with me; maybe she's got her guard up from the breakup. Either that or she's on closet freak rebound mode which would be the tits.

Any thoughts or advice on this?

Bro

Anytime you're going to be alone with a girl there is a time for seduction to take place. Thats a given, and from what you stated her you've been displaying the proper frame. It sounds like she likes you. A girl knows within five minutes whether she would be interested in having sex with you or not. And if she invited you over, I'm sure she's gave it a thought.

As far as the party - go man. Whats the worse that can happen? It either goes how you planned or you learn a great life lesson to improve yourself. It beats staying home and playing call of duty.. in the longterm.

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Yes. This is a great opportunity to make a move in a 1-on-1 setting with no distractions.

Go to the party, that's a no brainer. But game other girls there and pay her very little attention. Be nice to her, but just kind of act like she's one of your bros and don't care if she sees you talking to other girls.

Go do homework with her too. Play that one a little different. Make sure to get close to her when she's "helping you solve your equations" or whatever. Don't necessarily try to make a move, but create an intimate vibe. Press the side of your arm against hers or do subtle kino moves. As long as you don't push it then all that will do is build attraction and you won't weird her out. You can then parlay that into something more the next time you get together. Just keep in mind that you can blow it by going for too much because then she'll know the homework thing was just a ruse to try to get in her pants.

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This is good. Noted. Thx