we hung out had sex, didnt see her for a while she went on cruise with fam, she back i see her we talk hangout, she callss me that night, she comes over we fuck, text her the next day talking , we having good convo she wants to go to spain together etc, asking me what i want from her so she dont catch feelings, i said have fun be genuine be cool , not looking to jump into anything, but anything is possible skys the limit she agreed. I like her, i want her on the team , hang out be best friends/ fuck friends but im not on that relationship stuff im good on that, that was the last convo we had i havent texted her in 2 days and she hasnt texted me back, i want her on the team, im tryna play like want her to make the first move text me have her show interest in me but she hasnt hit me up yet so...

Usually doesn't work in that order - usually have to take the reigns and set the expectations for the relationship yourself.

Sounds like she's already on the team. Now all you have to do is not screw it up by acting needy.

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yea everything looking good etc she ended up texting me saying she needed a drink we went out hungout at the bar had fun came back to my house fucked, i guess she was messin with this other guy they werent in a relationship but talking or something and he wasnt doing shit right acting funny idk she was like fuk him etc, so she hits me up today after we were texting having good convo etc , and says this ''can you be my new boo officially not not boo'd up anymore'' i dont even know what to say to this lol, all i said in reply was am i gonna see you tonight,

Ok, so now she is in the palm of your hand. Good job bro.

I don't know what this boo business is about tho. Who asks for commitment after the first fuck? I'd dismiss that and downplay it for now. If she starts making a big deal about it....then its "clingy psycho alert" time.

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