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I get your logic, but here's the problem I'm trying to say exists with it. There are going to be guys that are going to read what you say and are going to take it to heart when they run into obstacles, i.e. your obstacles when you spoke of benefits to table game. So when they read this they'll say that if I throw a minimum of 3 figures at it it'll overcome that obstacle instead of learning how to overcome them for free. It's leading to an AFC mindset.
+1 Agreed.
@Fury - You are spreading bad advice. If guys follow your way of thinking they are gonna start thinking in terms of limiting beliefs, like "if only I had more money, I wouldn't have this problem with women".
The other issue with your thinking which you still haven't addressed is the pedestal mindset. You believe that women are only attracted to you because you are financially successful. That means that before you started earning big money, you didn't feel worthy of a woman's time. So again, you are spreading the belief that you need to EARN big money to be attractive, which is unhealthy. I stress the word "earn" because that's what money game is at its core. It's the idea that you have to earn a woman's respect with money before you feel worthy of talking to her.
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You believe that women are only attracted to you because you are financially successful.
Don't fucking tell me what I believe. I never said this, EVER. And it isn't true. I've been successful with countless women before I started making big money.
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That means that before you started earning big money, you didn't feel worthy of a woman's time.
Huh? Again, where did I say this? I would never say it because it isn't true. Stop putting fucking words in my mouth, AGAIN.
I've been successful broke, and I've been successful with money. I've seen the different dynamics and how different types of game can work. Money game can work, and it does work, and girls aren't just into it for the money, they associate money with power (an alpha trait) and provider traits which are attractive from an evolutionary point of view. That's the real reason it works, not the actual money. I don't advocate money game but I'm not going to pretend it doesn't work. I advocate instead LEARNING from money game, understanding WHY it works, and how you can replicate the effects without money. I even wrote an article about that on my site.
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