Okay now. I'll break it down. I have a friend who I had dated when I first met her and now we are friends due to my AFC errors. Since I have changed my personality (before I learned about the PUA world) I would like some help as to go about getting the one that got away. There is also another girl who I have already gotten her number, but I want to grab and keep her attention. Got any suggestions?

Forget about gaming the first one until you know what you're doing better. If you try to game her now, you'll make mistakes, because you are new to it and don't have a great method developed yet and then once you've screwed it up again and she has seen that you are changing, she won't be easy to impress and pick up once you are good. Patience is a virtue.

The girl who's number you have, I'd set up a day 2 with at the mall, or some other good first "date" location that you can display your personality and DHV. make sure it is somewhere that you feel comfortable and then play ball. If you're looking for specifics on what to do, then let us know what exact things you need help with so that we can be specific.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

As Rye said for the first one, let her chill a bit.

For the second, amp up the attraciton she feels toward you. Flip the switches and KEEP flipping them.

Thanks guys. As far as a sticking point, I'm olny witty and sarcastic. Other than that, I haven't live an interesting life. I suppose my goals and ambitions could do. Oh, and I just found out the second girl has a BF. I'll just feel it out to see where he stands. I have no routines either. I'm basically shooting from the hip since I stared with these two before I knew about PUA.

She gave you her number, so she obviously doesn't care if she has a bf, why should you?

Not living an interesting life is complete bullshit. I don't care who says it, whether he's an honest to god rockstar, or if he lives in his parent's basement and plays WoW all the time, you have interesting things happen to you that you just dismiss as boring. You need to learn how to seperate the actually boring stuff from the stuff that you can make interesting with just a bit of flare and good storytelling. Hell, I'll tell people about the most ridiculously mundane things, but because I do it with passion and get into the stories and have fun with it, people have fun with it too; whether I'm talking about the old man that claimed my co-worker pushed him, when he had really just patted him on the shoulder lightly, or how I bought some food from the convenience store and saw a pack of mints in the garbage on the way out that were curious for whatever reason.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

How about routines, tests,or just gimicks to impress? I have the confince thing down pretty well. Just need help to put the pieces together. I'm basically brave/dumb enough to try anything. And what does it mean when the girls is talking for most of the convo? Is this a sign of the LJBF?
If so, I don't need that. I've got too many attractive friends as it is.