So I have gone on a couple dates with this chick in my class- I did end up getting a kiss, and I have tried to pull her to my place a couple times- but she resisted each time.

After I kissed her about a week ago, she has been a lot more aloof. I sent her a text message this weekend asking her to watch a movie with me, and she hasn't replied, and I am not expecting a reply to come, frankly. I probably struck out on this one, however I am going to see her in class on Monday, where my assigned seat is right next to hers.

What do I say to her if she:

A) Brings up her failure to text back
or
B) Doesn't bring up her failure to text back


I'm not overly concerned about this chick, I've got other girls I'm seeing, just think it is a tricky situation that could be a valuable learning lesson, and may be salvageable if I handle it the right way.

Update: Girl did reply finally. Longwinded text about being busy night before, and forgetting to reply during the day today. She said she is going to be busy most of the week, but didn't counteroffer with a time.

Her:"Hey sorry. I was a little out of hand yesterday early on and then forgot to respond today. I'm going to be proactive and get as much possible done this week since I will be out of town for much of the week."

Brings about new question: how do you handle a girl that appears disinterested through text? I plan on responding later in the day tomorrow, if at all. How would you handle this type of situation?

Just move onto the next one

To be clear, I want to re-attract her if possible. I'm going to be seeing other chicks regardless.

Wait a week or so text her again to hangout, nothing to lose. Push every lead to its end.

Agreed, you are getting flaked on and she is giving you excuses, she doesn't sound like she is worth wasting your time on fishnwomen.

If she still seems into it in class etc. you could invite her again after a bit of time has passed. Keep the vibe that all is cool and you are completely unconcerned with "how things stand" between the two of you.

Maybe you could mention nonchalantly in convo you're hanging out with one of the girls your seeing. This could make her jealous and make her want to chase you.