| Hey guys…I’d appreciate some help in taking my prospects to the next level. Basically my issue is building comfort with my prospects…part of it is that I am having trouble finding the time to manage them all and part of it is that, in person, I’m not doing a good job of building attraction.
I’m pretty solid with online game (not so good with club/bar game, but not entirely without past success). I’m leaning on online game to get my prospects. I have no trouble getting numbers…in a month I racked up 50. The problem is…going from there. By itself, a number isn’t much. But when I am juggling having that many women, sometimes I am left clueless as to what to do. I rely on texting since a lot of people do not talk on the phone, but with some women that actually isn’t the way to go. But when I’m texting so many different women, I cannot have a uniquely-tailored approach for all of them…so its mass texts, often pre-written exchanges at that, etc. I need to figure out how I can, working with that many women, build comfort, get them out in person and go from there. Timing is also an issue…what’s too fast? What’s too slow? I’ve been out with 8 different women over the past month…not bad. But sometimes I feel like things aren’t moving along fast enough. Sometimes I get complaints that I am being negligent.
Also, building kino. There’s on HB8, a German woman who I took out a few times. Well. I’ll have her rolling on the floor laughing the entire time…which is great. But she seems resistant to get onto the topic of sex. I’m working a little kino, but its so minimal and weak that I figure maybe its hurting if anything. I want a little advice on Kino, because it’s the kind of thing that can create awkwardness or a creep-vibe if it isn’t done right and sometimes it feels more natural to me, and other times it just feels like…its not invited.
Thanks!
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