Hey guys, thought I would share a little story- I am currently in college, and one of the girl's i am interested in is in many of my classes- it's a tight community. I see her every day. I went on a couple dates with her, the first date no kiss, but some touching and great conversation. A couple days later, I changed my profile picture to one with another girl in it, a very attractive HB9 or 10.

She eagerly took me up on a second date, and we kissed and more great conversation, we shared quite a bit in common, it was almost startling. Anyway, a few days later, I started talking to her over FB, and she seemed pretty aloof, I am guessing she saw my profile picture and wasn't thrilled. She has been a lot more aloof in person as well, almost like she wants to avoid being seen flirting with me.

The more I think about it, the more I think she thought I was playing her, and given the nature of the classes we are in, where everyone knows everyone else- it would be embarrassing for her to look like she is second fiddle to this other girl. I assume that is what is up here.

Has anyone experienced a similar backlash in closed social circles? What is the best way to dial down the jealousy card and not be perceived as a "player"? I changed my picture already.

Is this the point the 2nd date petered out?

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Dude, I had a girl I slept with on the first date on the second floor of a empty dinner friend zone me the next day because I got all high off the thrill of what we did. Sounds like you let the height of the moment get to you and you knew she had you.

Just pull back and get yourself in order. She didn't leave because of some profile pic. A girl that likes you will ask you about it; she won't just disappear. She likes you too much. Just chill, pretend she doesn't exist. Maybe she'll come back around maybe she won't, but you'll be too busy dealing with other things to notice.

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