I've been gaming this HB9 from college course over the past two weeks and I've been making good progress.

We had a night out on Thursday and we had an amazing time. We spent a few hours together; we danced a lot, we kissed maybe about a dozen times, and she was also dry humpming me like crazy in the club. She's quite good looking, so she attracted various chodes and AFCs during the night, which I dealt with well.

Anyway, at about half 3, myself and the girl decided to head home and at t exit of the club, I just remembered that I had to get my jacket from the cloakroom. She was really tired/drunk, so didn't want to go all the way back through the club to get to the cloakroom. I told her to wait where we were (at the exit door), and that I would be back when I got my jacket. So, I run to the cloakroom and return about 2 minutes later and she's gone. WTF.

I asked the security guy if he had seen her and he said that she had just gone outside, but there was no sign if her!

Any advice?

If you are trying to fuck her- then let it slide, play it off as no big deal. Text her in a few days, don't bring it up, and just play it off as a miscommunication if she brings it up.

If you are trying to date her- FUCK HER- that's a terrible sign of shit to come.

Girl's don't like being left alone in situations like this, i would have dragged her along with me.

Thanks for your advice.

I'm looking for a relationship and I'd like to date her.

Why is it a terrible sign of shit to come?

Erm... because she completely flaked? This is the kinda girl you do a one night stand with or a no strings attached sorta thing. In the future, always bring her with you.

EDIT:

Oh, and what you described isn't LMR...

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Now tell me, why would you leave a tired/drunk girl alone in a shark tank ?
No worries, this stuff happens in the game, next time think ahead and have that cloak ready, dont leave her alone in such situations.

She probably had a conscience hit and likes you so didnt wana seem slutty by sleeping with you so fast and took a cab.

Just play it cool and try again next time. She probably wants to date you too.

I think is in the bag tho, just keep playing the game.

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Okay, I know it was a pretty stupid mistake, but the exit door of the club is always really quiet, with nobody around. I won't make that mistake again.

I think that you're completely right, she just had a conscience hit and didn't want to sleep with me on the first night. She also texted me the next morning and said she really enjoyed the night and had a lot of fun!

I also saw her again yesterday in college. She was a little bit weird/withdrawn at first, but then after a few minutes she was normal again.

Maybe another smooth fellow like yourself took her home. It happens bro. Charge it to the game. When I was younger I would make out with girls, they would disappear, and I would spend 20 mins walking around looking for them like a stalking loser.

Let it go bro. Charge it to the game.

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Ok perfect, so is true she didnt want to seem like a slut. Play it cool, keep courting her like a boss and mak it happen. Its in the bag boiiii

Let us kno how it turned out

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Ok, I thought that I'd give you a bit of an update on this girl...

I think she definitely likes me, but I'm not sure where it's going. Over the past few weeks, we've had a few nights out with mutual friends. They don't count as dates obviously because we went out as a group of friends. However, we have been getting on really well and flirting back and forth, etc.

So, anyway, one night I mentioned to her that I do this hillwalking club some weekends and she said that she would like to come along. So, I brought her along on the latest walk, on the weekend just gone by. I collected her in my car and dropped her home and we spent the entire day talking to each other. She then texted me about half an hour after she got home to say that she had a brilliant day... So, I suggested that we would have lunch together the following day and she agreed. However, on the following day, she was busy hanging out with some of her girlfriends...


She tends to go hot and cold; what do you think?

Any ideas on my latest post?

Hopefully there was kino escalation on the hike. If not she may be starting to see this as a 'buddies' situation.

I think there is potential but this is the turning point, it's where you ask yourself if YOU really care about her that much and whether she's worth the effort of brushing aside the frustration she brings to you, just to see if you can make her your permanent girlfriend.

The signs are though that there are alot of IOIs, and I mean alot. If she keeps texting you after dates saying she enjoyed herself, then she's in the bag... You just need more persistence mate