So things are going awesomely well with this girl, been out on a couple of dates and we're both definitely into eachother.

She still loves the playing hard to get though, especially online, making out she's not bothered about talking on MSN or facebook etc. I really want to find a way of saying "stop playing hard to get woman, what's the point!?" without sounded like an AFC.

Any ideas?

It's all part of the game isn't it? -The whole push pull thing.

Just make sure you're in control. At the moment, it sounds like she is. Do the cat-string thing with her, except you gotta be the one dangling the string. And when you get firm IOI's escalate it with kino.

Remember even if you manage to date her, don't think it will ever settle down into equilibrium.

Guys are inherently logical. We all want straight forward answers. Girls don't work that way. So keep on your toes, and your patience will be rewarded.

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well first off you need to elaborate on how u think shes in to you.
you also need to keep in mind that some girls love to keep us on our toes so that we keep chasing them. Its a way for them to know that their in control and have you by the balls lol, its kind of a hidden way to keep them feeling good about themselves.We call this "cat stringing". you got to turn things around so that shes chasing you.Remember us as guys want what we cant get and believe it or not girls are the same way. Neg her, make her laugh do watever it takes to get a closer connection with this girl and when you do, pull away by eg."im goin out of town for a few days, il contact you when i get back." in the meantime go out and sarge some more girls, build some more confidence so when you talk to her again youll have the "i dont need these games" attitude and hey on the field you might even find someone whos more down earth and forget her completely and by then youll see that she wont leave you alone.So to conclude this, just dont mention anything about the games shes playing just turn the role around and dont put her on a pedestal. If it works out too good, if not take it as a learning experience,go over what you could have done differently and move on.

hope that helps,
Good luck man

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Make her want you SO damn bad she can't stand it. Actions speak louder than words.

I too have felt this way at times where im like, "look we are past the acting like we dont like each other kiddie shit..." but some people either dont turn it off or you yourself havnt reached that point yet.

Im a very open person, being so i easily feel comfortable with people (and expect them to feel comfortable too). So idk if im wrong in thinking that at some point that 'hard to get' game stops...but i agree with Tripp.

Play it back to the point where they want you, and you are the one going, nuh uh..not yet . Combine that 'hard to get' attitude with playful banter, kino, and push-pull and it should drive her nuts, in a good way.

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