Hi All,

Most of you ive given advice to or helped in the past but now im looking for the same.

So i used to work with a girl shes 29 im 22 Shes a solid hb10 no ifs and or buts. We used to flirt alot and alot of kino on the job. She friendzoned me but now ive moved job and we text sometimes seeing how one and other is getting on etc. I honestly go weak at the knees for her shes gorgeous. Shes so strong minded and independent. walking down the Road with her one day and she says she never breaks eye contact if she catches a guy staring at her because she doesnt want him to think hes more dominant. Shes so clued up its scary. Anyways you guys got any idea on how i can play this one im tempted to accept defeat but i love a challenge and shes the best challenge ive ever found.

thanks troops

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When you talk with her on text tell her something like"shit,it's so annoiyng talking like that...let's go to a coffe and we can disscus face to face,i'm free on friday"...you say she is dominant so don't ask for the date just set it.If is saying no,go like"okok i understand you don't go out with little boys like me,it's fine".Make fun because you are younger than her if she don't accept.Peace

Stenic1: How did you get friendzoned and how long ago?

Got friendzoned about 4 months ago with her primarily because of the age gap and working together.
She definitely showed interest but i couldnt bridge the gap. So now ive left im like fuck i have to go for it.

I like that one Tony just set a date. She did love how cocky and funny i was like i used to just charm her every day and a few times i properly reeled her in but could never jst tip it over the edge.

Shes not like any other girl ive met though. Shes a party girl whose classy and head strong... Fucked about too many times that she now knows what guys are like. its difficult but i love the challenge

Keep the advice coming troops

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Well, nothing to really lose here.

Her headstrong, alpha female ways are no good to you as a friend (as far as I'm concerned, anyway).

If you can get the girl out for drinks... Do so.

Not on the pretext of a date though. Just get her out and then escalate (and don't tell her you like her - but you already know that).

Don't use a routine either. She's probably heard 'em before and you have a pre-existing relationship with her anyway. You could use something like "Well, we no longer work together, which means we can get falling-over drunk and make assholes of ourselves without having to worry about professionalism..."

-- I have no idea what you do for a living, though - that may be effective if you had the right job.

Once you're out with her - the secret is kino, my man... Touch lots. Not creepy shit, but rather fun shit... You can't touch enough (unless she tells you to back the fuck off).

Be entertaining, smile, laugh, make her feel like she's lucky to be out with you. That's all you can do, really.

You'll have to read her queues, but the more you touch, the better your chances.

Yeah i know most of what to do. I think i just have to be more dominant in this situation and just say 'look we're going out for a drink i miss your crappy chat and funny cackle.'

First girl ive ever came across whose posed a threat to me i like it though its a good challenge. Im a quantity surveyor though so the line of professionalism is a good one. We have loads in common so im sure i wont struggle to escalate it.

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I think you need to adjust your mindset as well (a bit).

Her shit stinks too, man.

There's nothing special about her... And the reason she's currently single is because somewhere, at some point in her life, some guy got sick of her bullshit.

You need to treat her like any other girl...

I agree, tbh shes the only girl ive ever valued in years. But its not held me back from banging other chicks.

I'm not entirely fussed tbh and im not really chasing her any longer. No point wasting my time im happy to have her as a friend if thats all it will be. i definitely would love to wreck her though lol

Currently working on an HB9 who is definitely introduce to the parents material, shes pretty keen have her eating out the palm of my hand after a few texts. she asked me what i did last night i said sat in had a beer and watched a movie. She was all 'OMG where was my invite??' Played it cool and told her that shes not entitled to an invite until she buys me a beer... 'shes now buying me a beer next week lol

So dont worry guys the ball keeps rolling thats what alot of guys on here need to realise there is always another one to fill the void. IF your going through a dry patch the fat ones need it too !

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Nice Stenic.

I kinda disagree with Tony about negging yourself if she says no. It probably won't go over too well if she's dominant.

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Went balls out guys and basically she acted a bit bitchy and stuff.
So i just ignored her and have figured she can go fuck herself with a jaggy stick lol.
No time for that shit if she wont make any time for me why should i. Plus i kiss closed 3 girls on saturday night and number closed 5 ! No biggy atall. lol win some you lose some guys ! thats the ways of the game

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What I would do if I like a particular girl, is chase properly, wager the interest, and escalate accordingly. Assuming shes attracted and complies of course, she has to want to meet up.
I feel like if I like a girl ill do whatever it takes to get her. Because in the end is worth more than banging alot of diffrent girls. That doesnt mean be needy. But if I see the opportunity I'd persue. Now if she's not wanting to go out and ignoring me, then ill probably persist properly a couple of times befor callint it quits. But ill walk away with my head up high knowing I gave it my all.
Im currently pursueing a hb10 myself and things seem promising, excited to see what happens.

Yea the game can be about banging lots of chicks but I love it when I meet a dime, mmm the thrill of the chase. Thats game.

Of course this is a more experienced mindset, if your a noob reading this, get good with women first, thats whats going to help you get 10s.

Complete non neediness, but a deep desire. Love it.

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I agree with you here you realise after conquering alot of girls its not about your number its about the ones who are a real challenge to every other guy. Ive had a couple of 10's and held onto one for some length of time. The chase though is the best especially when she is a true gem.

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Lol I cant imagine after getting good game, settling for anything less than a 10...

After years in the game im starting to look at quality now.

Is like yea dude wats ur lay count?

Guy : 300 !! (Regular hoes) maybe a couple were hot but you get my point

Im not gona say my number but I will say it doesnt matter, I realized wats more important is are the girls of quality, do they make you a better person?

I dont see how 100 one night stands will do anything for me. Lol.

Although is nice to get laid whenever and can be fun. But I think the bigger picture would be to lock down a solid 10.

I heard of a guy whos nickname was 20,000(wilt chamberlain)

He said having sex with a thousand diffrent women is cool
But nothing compares to making love to the same woman 1000 diffrent ways.


-dtrak

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Totally agree with your statement lay count in the long run doesnt count. Just use it to get good in bed and keep the 10 you've always wanted. Tbh i've been still talking to her literally just being a bit arrogant and things towards her. She keeps texting so as far as i can see it im just going to keep pushing her.

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