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JackZero
PostPosted: Thu Oct 02, 2014 3:54 pm 
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I assume that this post has a few thoughtful responses because guys everywhere sometimes have trouble re-initiating sex with a girlfriend. Hey, its challenging to think up new, creative ways to get her lusting...

The answer is YES. I'm all over her. At the gym I'd randomly push her against a wall and make out with her, then pull away as fast as I came in. I'm literally always touching her ass, or tugging her hair to get at her neck. Goddamn boys I thought I was doing everything right lol. Here's the deal, she's super tight. So tight that sex is always very uncomfortable for her. I can barely put it in halfway. The foreplay is absolutely amazing. I enjoy going down on her and using fingering techniques that make her legs quiver. I feel like its the penetration part that she kind of dreads for now. Inb4 she's not wet enough: Trust me she's soaked.

Perhaps she just had a headache like what she said, was exhausted and didn't feel like having a dick in her mouth or vag. Fine..I guess. But she needs to know that this is a party-foul and my interest has plummeted.

Being short and sweet by text and will not initiate another hangout. Any opinions are more than welcome.
You realize what you are saying is that you don't think she enjoys sex with you? You are describing a bad sexual experience for her. So while she enjoys you getting her worked up, she doesn't like the sex.

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I assume that this post has a few thoughtful responses because guys everywhere sometimes have trouble re-initiating sex with a girlfriend. Hey, its challenging to think up new, creative ways to get her lusting...

The answer is YES. I'm all over her. At the gym I'd randomly push her against a wall and make out with her, then pull away as fast as I came in. I'm literally always touching her ass, or tugging her hair to get at her neck. Goddamn boys I thought I was doing everything right lol. Here's the deal, she's super tight. So tight that sex is always very uncomfortable for her. I can barely put it in halfway. The foreplay is absolutely amazing. I enjoy going down on her and using fingering techniques that make her legs quiver. I feel like its the penetration part that she kind of dreads for now. Inb4 she's not wet enough: Trust me she's soaked.

Perhaps she just had a headache like what she said, was exhausted and didn't feel like having a dick in her mouth or vag. Fine..I guess. But she needs to know that this is a party-foul and my interest has plummeted.

Being short and sweet by text and will not initiate another hangout. Any opinions are more than welcome.
You realize what you are saying is that you don't think she enjoys sex with you? You are describing a bad sexual experience for her. So while she enjoys you getting her worked up, she doesn't like the sex.
I suppose the penetration part isn't something her body is used to yet. I took her virginity and we don't have sex enough for the vaginal muscle to expand to the new demand -So to speak-. So yes I suppose penetration is painful for her. I make sure we spend like 45 minutes on foreplay and I know she loves that. I sorta go the extra mile during foreplay.

(Pro-tip: When you go down on her, go back up to her lips or let her give you head, then say "Don't think i'm finished with you" and go back down on her...most girls will love it)

Right now I'm kinda leaning towards a strategy of how to act with her. I want her to know that what she did isn't cool...but its a tight-rope situation. If she was actually sick then I'm going to look like the biggest asshole. She's texting me sexual things and i'm brushing them off...MAN am I ever pissed lol

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If the issue is overly tight vaginal muscles, it's an issue of control, not anything else. She's tensing up with excitement instead of relaxing. You are right, it's common among sexually inexperienced women. Wetness doesn't help much.

The best way to counter it is positional. You need her flat on her back, with her legs spread out and up on your shoulders. You should be standing. Use a bed, washing machine, counter top, etc. I have never failed to get fully in from this position, no matter how tensed up she usually gets. Just make sure you're the right height for whatever you pick. You may need something to stand on, or put under her for the level to work.

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Guys trust me, I know when a girl has an orgasm. The look of "I just got hit with a 4000lbs water wave" is always on her face after and her eyes go glossy. Im 23 and rather experienced. She also tells me its good when I dont ask. She'll randomly make remarks about loving my "size" and my "tongue". Could it be that she just was legitimately not feeling well? or clean? After all she was up since 7am and worked out without changing...Anyway she's been sending me hearts and shit since...im kinda giving her space. She knows she has making up to do.
Uhm, NO.

She's faking it. Some of the signs to look for are:

1. Involuntary abdominal spasms.

2. Rising up of the entire body to meet your penis, hardening of her abdominal muscles, legs and toes, and quivering of the entire body.

3. Her chest area and face are flushed red.

4. Involuntary contractions of the vagina. You'll feel those tiny muscular teeth inside her pussy 'biting' and 'crunching' your cock.

Always judge women not by what they say but by what they do.

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