Hi guys

Should I confront her, or ignore her?

We connected on Tinder, moved to SPAM, after 4 weeks of messaging (I know!), we met for a date.

The date was awesome, met at a bar, moved to a club, met her friends, taxi to her friends for after party. No sex but great kino, DHV, ended up semi naked on the couch. HB7/8, super cautious of cheats and liars, had her heart broken before through Tinder.

Here's the problem; 7 days have passed and she is avoiding all communication. Either one word answers or no reply at all to messages. Complete opposition to the rapport built during the date.

This is not oneitis, but I need the community to help, should ignore her (admit defeat) or confront her?

If you recommend continuing the game by confronting her... best methods/ routines?


Regards,
D

I would recommend leaving her be.

She'll contact you if she's interested.

Sadly, she is not interested. It happens. A lot of times a great date doesn't lead to much more. This is why you should always try to get sex, as this generates the highest chance of attachment and second date probability (partially self fulfilling, given she has to be more into you to have sex with you than do other things)

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Exactly! There is no better advice than this.

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Thank you gentlemen.

Much appreciated

Yep, you didn't fuck her.

She went so far on the first date, was really horny and wanted your cock in her mouth. Nothing happened = she felt like a slut = her losing interest and wanting to avoid the source of her guilt(You).

In those situations you should go all the way unless she's fucked up in which case dodge it.

UPDATE:

The girl has since contacted me, she's not over the ex boyfriend/ not ready to move on.


Thanks again guys.

The whole "Ex boyfriend/Not ready to move on" is bullshit. You should have have fucked her.