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Watched a 30min vid, assume that was the one.
It seems to make sense, Alex is referring to frame battles with women but I see how it could apply between guys as well. If I understand correctly then, your frame is basically your ability/confidence to uphold your identity and sort of self amuse when interacting with, well, anyone?
You got it. Perhaps you don't think you have a hard time making friends, then one snarky comment from a random dude knocked you off your horse. The fact is, if he was a real alpha male he wouldn't feel the need to pay that kind of attention to you, he wouldn't feel the need to knock you down, and really, he is an insecure chode trying to pretend otherwise. Truthfully, I used to get rattled all the time, I had spent years alone and dealing with people was very difficult when I got into PUA. So, watch out for guys like this again. Now that you know what is up you can use that experience to fuel your confidence in the fact that you can peg an insecure loser for what he really is and beat their frame ten times out of ten. You can challenge them, or you can chuckle a bit to yourself (which is seriously invalidating to them) and turn your attention to something more interesting to you. Don't be hostile, or rude, because you don't need to be and you have nothing to prove to anyone, least of all a loud mouthed chump.