Not really my first post, had to delete my old account and make a new one. Anyway basically I just want to make sure I'm making the right decision.

Cliffs:
- Been seeing girl for about a month now
- Met earlier in the year, attracted each other got number. Talked (texted and a lot of calls but no dates) for a couple of weeks, attraction was obvious but she was going through shit with ex so it didn't go any further then. Both stopped contact.
- She initiated contact again about 4-5 months later, she apologized for before. Decided to give her the time of day and see where it could go as I found the girl interesting and attractive.
- She initiated contact 90% of the time, lots of calls and texts throughout each day. Conversations were fun, deep, sexual, interesting and a lot of teasing.
-First date a couple of days later, went well. Hooked up for an hour straight, played around for a bit but no full f-close before dropping her off.
-Second date she came to my house, went to my room and got straight to business. Sex was great, better for her than it was for me I didn't fully finish but she def cummed.
-She was a little quiet after and on the way home she had tears. Later found out she had only slept once with her ex of 3 years before and that's it. Comforted her and she was all good after.
-The next time I saw her I was really sick with the flu and high temperature, she came to my house. Parents were also visiting so she met them. She basically took care of me. This is when I started to fall for the girl.
-Date after that was just a normal cinema date, hooked up barely watched the movie.
-During the next week I noticed she started to not initiate contact as much and it felt like she was kind of pulling back so I started initiating more without overdoing it so she didn't feel she always had to initiate.
-Kept talking after that for a week but I was too busy to really set up another date. Last time we talked she texted me first in the morning, exchanged a couple and I called her when I got home from work. Talked for an hour then she had to go take her sister somewhere, said she would call back or msg but didn't hear from her again that day. I was a bit angry at this so I didn't initiate contact again so we didn't talk for 3 days.
-What happened last time when we suddenly stopped talking was playing in my mind so I caved and fucked up slightly, texted her good morning, how she had been and if anything was wrong or are we just on non speaking terms SPAM. She completely ignored it.
-Haven't talked since that message 4 days ago, so been a week of no contact overall.

This is the first time this has ever happened to me, I started to like this girls pretty strongly to the point where our conversations were pretty much talking about a relationship future. I was starting to be a little too sweet to her but she always seemed to respond well to it and reciprocate it. Now at this point I have an idea in my head of what's up and what to do but I also have a few other things running through the back of my mind. Surely this can't be a shit test to see if I chase her? or she can't be upset over me not talking to her for 3 days when she initially stopped contact? I don't believe I did anything wrong enough to warrant being ignored.

Since at this point I have lost a lot of interest due to being ignored and I know I have basically answered my own questions feelings tend to make your mind go back and forth. I consider my options to be:
- Just forget about it, don't text call or nothing and move on (accept that probably some other guy came into the picture or she flaked). Maybe she'll contact again? (I consider this my best option)
-Send a genuine bye message to be the bigger person and get some closure as I kind of feel I need it (don't know if this would be AFC though)
-Or try to call or text one more time (don't want to seem I'm kissing her ass and being needy, but maybe I did fuck up somehow and I don't see it?)

What do you guys think?

There's you answer.
All pointless. Just move on.

There is plenty more to try on.

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Yeah even after just writing this whole thing out I realized myself that was probably the best thing to do. If her story about only having had sex once before is true then I'm guessing the most likely scenario is that she's talking to him again since I doubt she would leave me for a new guy after we fucked. I'll never understand how girls can go back to cheating ex's just like that. But whatever.

It's a shame as I really started feeling pretty strongly about this girl pretty quickly, thought it could actually go somewhere. Ignoring someone like that and just disappearing has to be one of the most cowardly things a person can do to someone.

Do you think there would be a way to get a bit of closure for myself without sounding AFC or needy and without validating her behaviour? would also pretty much let her know that's it she fucked up. I'm not the kind of person that can just leave things unfinished just like that, goes for any part of my life not just dating/relationships so would be nice but not absolutely necessary if it's not a good idea.

Already set up a date with another girl I used to talk to so that will get the moving on started.

YOU PUT YOURSELF IN A POSITION TO BE IGNORED BY MAKING YOURSELF TOO ACCESSIBLE TO HER. YOU SUBCOMMUNICATED NEEDINESS TO HER, MOST WOMEN ARE VERY ATTUNED TO THIS VIBE AND THEY EXPERIENCE A LOT WITH INSECURE GUYS. YOU PUSHED, SHE PULLED, SHE KNEW YOU WERE ON THE HOOK. YOUR ONLY HOPE NOW IS GETTING ON WITH YOUR LIFE, IT'S WIN/WIN YOU MOVE ON AND CAN SEE THE RELATIONSHIP MORE OBJECTIVELY AND ITS ALSO GOING TO GIVE YOU THE HIGHEST PROBABILITY OF HER COMING BACK AROUND. YOU MAY NOT EVEN WANT HER AT THAT POINT, TOUGH TO SAY NONE OF US HAVE A CRYSTAL BALL TO SEE INTO THE FUTURE, NOR CAN WE MIND READ.

DO YOU, CONNECT TO YOURSELF AND CLOSE THIS CHAPTER FOR YOUR OWN WELLBEING.