i SUCK at making openers



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PostPosted: Thu Sep 25, 2014 6:08 pm 
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I just keep forgetting what to say at the last moment i got this to happen to me a lot of times when i just end up saying a lame boring "Hi". Any tips? Also what do i do if the person is some one i know a little how do i start a conversation?


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 25, 2014 6:17 pm 
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You can add "I'm Krowed1234". I didn't come up with that one myself, but I have field tested it on numerous occasions and it works. Obviously, I use my own name and not yours.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 25, 2014 8:17 pm 
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If "hi" is lame and boring, append it into "hi there". If a "good opener" come to mind, use it. But don't sit like a dope trying to think of one. Half the time I come up with my open after I've already start walking towards the girl.


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 25, 2014 10:33 pm 
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I just keep forgetting what to say at the last moment i got this to happen to me a lot of times when i just end up saying a lame boring "Hi". Any tips? Also what do i do if the person is some one i know a little how do i start a conversation?
You're putting too much pressure on yourself. If you're still super nervous when approaching, too nervous to mutter anything but hi, then you need to just say "Hi my name is" and get used to it.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 09, 2014 5:38 am 
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You can add "I'm Krowed1234". I didn't come up with that one myself, but I have field tested it on numerous occasions and it works. Obviously, I use my own name and not yours.
I'm going to start using, "I'm Krowed 1234. Google it." Also, I have a 12 inch penis.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 09, 2014 5:54 am 
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Be observational and topical.
Agreed. When you open observationally it gives you and the girl an opportunity to get a feel for eachother, it is not "gamey" at all and it is a great example of being socially calibrated.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2014 5:49 pm 
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Your opener usually sets the tone or the vibe of the initial conversation and interaction. That's why I hate the "Can I ask you a question" openers, because the girl gets in a serious mindset of trying to help provide you with an answer, and she often doesn't realize this is merely part of a friendly conversation or that you are interested in her.

I still like the opener of asking a girl if you can use her cellphone real quick. She reluctantly gives it to you, and you hastily start dialing a number. Three seconds later YOUR phone rings in your pocket. She'll be like "WTF?" Then you tell her "Thanks, I just wanted to get your number. Btw, I like your phone." :lol:

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 14, 2014 9:07 am 
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I still like the opener of asking a girl if you can use her cellphone real quick. She reluctantly gives it to you, and you hastily start dialing a number. Three seconds later YOUR phone rings in your pocket. She'll be like "WTF?" Then you tell her "Thanks, I just wanted to get your number. Btw, I like your phone." :lol:
Sounds pretty legit man; never tried it but certainly will!
Especially with going out for example; I can imagine when girls/women give you a negative response on this one, you can always come op with (while walking away) "Sorry, friends need me right now".
Pretty sure she'll be interested and confused as hell.


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