well this girl seemed into me and i fucked it up through jealousy and stuff and she cut me out of her life and i went no contact..after months of silence i texted last week to see you how things.she seemed to be replying out of politeness so i asked her and she replied that she hates me and that her b.f is a million times better than i am.she then added that i am a "beast in human clothing" and that i should leave her alone and that she wants my friendship nor anything to do with me.she sent like 5 long messages all saying negative stuff..i replied that i wish her the best in life but damn it was so hurting..don't know how to get over this..and may i add the guy she is dating is really good at game.

You have to get over it and move on. It's a lost cause. I bet you know the best way to move on, right?

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Sure, people can be harsh, but you must have treated her very badly and respectless to get a reaction like that. I think it's time for some reflection, thinking things over, learn from your errors, and don't repeat the same mistake again.

It's painful now, but you have to get over it and accept rejection.

That's a major part of this - being able to wear rejection with a smile on your face and move on.


Be a rock.

Seconding Hugge's response.
Either she just said those things for no reason or you did something to provoke that kind of reaction, which is cause for reflection. Those are horrible things to hear from anyone regardless, so I'm sorry about that.

Jealousy can really turn men into nasty people. You have to grow yourself and learn to handle things relating to jealousy. If it's purely the girl trying to get a rise out of you by doing inappropriate things to make you like that then you need to cut her off before you turn into a horrible person. If it's a matter of you being way too insecure and jealous you've got to look back at yourself and work on yourself. Till then just be a free agent and try not to get attached to women.

Not much else to say on the matter other than the fact that you can fix these things. Unfortunately you generally have to go through a lot of shit in order to notice it. The good thing is you seem to know that you acted wrongly and did some bad things which is the first step in improving yourself so good on you.

Try forget about the person you became and accept that you treated her badly but realise that you don't have to be like that in any future relationships.

I know it really hurts my bro. I have been there with my ex-wife mother of my kids. I was in a living hell because how much it hurt. Still am but better.

From the bottom of my heart and please believe me when i say this. The only way to feel better and possibly even get her back is to FUCK TEN OTHER WOMEN. It is the only way because of the mind set you are in now.

Please trust me on this. I know it is harsh but trust me it works.