Hey guys, appreciate any advice you can give me.

I was in an LTR for nearly 5 years. Awesome girl, great future, wanted marriage, house, kids, the whole 9. I thought I was going to wind up marrying her. We broke up about 5 months ago because many issues were starting to pile up, mainly trust issues between us (I did cheat on her a long time ago, and then caught her messaging a couple ex-fbs behind my back) and that the passion died out of the relationship. She did initiate the break-up, but wanted to remain friends. Up until last month, I got frustrated at how bad I felt I was being treated by her (keep in mind we never had sex after we broke up). I told her that I didn't want to be friends anymore, for many reasons. I want you to either commit to me or I'm done. Needless to say she didn't commit and we went our separate ways.

Last week I was picking up my lunch at the shopping centre and she approached me while I was ordering. We chatted for about 5 minutes about what was going on in our lives and then I had to leave. Now, she just texted me this last night at 1AM.

"Thinking of you tonight...hope you're doing good "

With everything that has happened, I wouldn't want a relationship SPAM (I am dating other girls), but I would be open to a FB/FWB type of situation. I don't think she's looking for validation given that she approached me and initiated conversation in the shopping centre? How do I respond? Thanks for any advice.

PS. Was thinking of saying "Hey, I am doing great, how are you?"

Before you get one of those love conquers all type of responses, I'm going to give you some reality information.

She dropped you once. It will be easier to drop you a second time.

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I'm with JackZero here. It's as though you both are holding on to opposite ends of a giant rubber-band at full stretch, and let me say the one that holds on tightest is going to get snapped across the knuckles and it's gonna hurt like a bitch.

That said; if you want to fuck her, than fuck her. Why beat around the bush. It's not like she doesn't know.
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I don't think you're going to be able to do the FWB thing without getting emotionally invested with this particular girl. Too much history.

a piece of advice dont do it.... i started sleeping with an ex 2 years after we broke up and things got complicated, i hate to say it but being an fb with an ex doesnt work. especially if it was a long term relationship if you dated for 6 months fine but several years then no thats bad especially if the breakup was recent

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