Hello guys i fucked up big time so i'm seeking advice on this please.
It's about me and my friend. In a nut shell i broke the bros before hoes rule.

I came home in the morning and my mate has brought a girl and they were drinking i could tell they've been there for hours.

I thought to myself he hasn't fucked her yet so i might as well do it myself. But i didn't ask him i just joined then and she liked me more cause we had more in common.

At the end i fucked her and she left. But now he doesn't want to speak to me or see me and regret this so much..

The only thing he has said to me was that he would have been ok with me if i asked him if i could fuck her but he thought i did it sneakily

Your friend is just but hurt because you out gamed him. Was he going to fuck her? He should have pulled her to his room. And fuck his permission! What the fuck are you thinking? It's not "his" girl. She is herown and can do whatever she wants. So can you. IMHO

No. You don't do that to a friend. You shouldn't even take a slice of pizza from him without asking.

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A human woman isn't his like a like a piece of pizza. A girl has every right to be with whomever she wants. No one ever requires permition from a third party. If the girl has no agreement with a guy, and the guys have no agreement between them, then there are no agreements. Guy could have asked him to back off as a favour, which he surely could have, an didn't, so being pissed off after the fact seems immature... just like viewing people as possessions (ie. pizza).

Myself, if I see two other people hitting it off, I'm happy for both of them and any discomfort I feel is my own damn problem.

No one is holding the woman responsible. If you have a friend, that's a disrespectful act from a friend.

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The friend met her and brought her over to fuck. If you want your own girls, go out and bring them home yourself. Its disrespectful. And lets be real here and not act like we're superman. If most of us meet a girl, spend time talking to her to fuck her and someone fucks her first, we're gonna feel salty. You picked fucking a girl over respecting your friend. No one is anyone's possession but you don't go fucking a girl without running it by your friend first, when you're not the one who gathered your balls up in the first place and approached her.

I suppose I'm in the minority, so I'll concede. I guess I'm just turned off by the "bros before hoes" terminology and for myself if my friend was genuinely connecting with someone more than me I would back off on my own... No permition required. It didn't really occurred to me either that if I had an AFC friend working on a girl for me to move in it would be pretty unfair to him. I wouldn't stick around at all because I would pull her attention from him effortlessly, even if I wasn't trying to fuck the girl.

If you were out and your friend was just some other guy then fair game but fucking someone he brought over? (let's face it what did we think they were gonna get up to later on?)

I suppose in a football analogy it's like one of your team mates shooting a fantastic shot and at the last minute you run in, tap the already guaranteed goal and claim it as your own, not cool really.

Tbh if i went into my friends house and he was chilling with a girl i would have abandoned ship instead of acting like a third wheel and a twat. Disappointed dude but look on the brightside you fucked her right in the pussy.

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Ok I forgot to ask the question.

What to do now?

I want to fix things up to but I don't know what to say to him.

He said he doesn't want to see me

Now I'm going to be on your side. You manned up and owned your mistake. If he doesn't want to hang out with you, fuck him. You understand why, but now there's nothing you can do(unless you can talk a greater than or equally hot girl into having sex with him). There's other people you can hang out with.

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